What to do when Life is too Rushed and Busy

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Post by DebDeb » Thu Apr 03, 2008 3:24 am

Does anyone feel like their lives never seem to slow down? It seems like the only time I find to relax is on the weekends, and that's when I do cleanups.
It's a vicious cycle.
Time Management? How can you manage your time when there isn't ENOUGH time to manage?

Between a full time job, home cleanups, making dinner,
and other obligations, there's hardly enough time to even get your thoughts together sometimes. And when things get really stressful -eg. at work, it always seems to boil over into my personal time making my 'things to do list' delayed.

I try to take as much of my 'free' time as possible and relax more, but it just doesn't seem to be enough.
and suggestions? comments on how you feel?

Guest

Post by Guest » Thu Apr 03, 2008 3:33 am

I feel your pain! I work full time, go to school part-time, and have a husband, two kids, pets, and a house! I'm exhausted just reading that sentence! :)

One thing that helped me in the past was this website: <A HREF="http://www.flylady.net" TARGET=_blank>www.flylady.net</A> She has some really good advice about time management in regards to housework, laundry, and personal enjoyment time. PLUS, she suffered from severe depression, so she can totally relate.

Just try to remember that if you don't schedule or make time for YOU then everything else will fall apart. You have to take care of you. Delegate if you have to (in fact, it's a good idea to do so!). Don't "should" on yourself about getting things done...or let others "should" on you either! And one more thing...say "No" if you have to...for your own best interest and piece of mind...and don't feel guilty about it! :)

Hang in there!

Blessings,
Dawn

Guest

Post by Guest » Thu Apr 03, 2008 3:52 am

Originally posted by Prv31Mom:
I feel your pain! I work full time, go to school part-time, and have a husband, two kids, pets, and a house! I'm exhausted just reading that sentence! :)

One thing that helped me in the past was this website: <A HREF="http://www.flylady.net" TARGET=_blank>www.flylady.net</A> She has some really good advice about time management in regards to housework, laundry, and personal enjoyment time. PLUS, she suffered from severe depression, so she can totally relate.

Just try to remember that if you don't schedule or make time for YOU then everything else will fall apart. You have to take care of you. Delegate if you have to (in fact, it's a good idea to do so!). Don't "should" on yourself about getting things done...or let others "should" on you either! And one more thing...say "No" if you have to...for your own best interest and piece of mind...and don't feel guilty about it! :)

Hang in there!

Blessings,
Dawn
WHOA! Dawn I don't feel as bad now. YOU have
A LOT going on than I do!!!!!!!!!!
I have the dog but not the kids LOL PLUS
you have a full time job and go to school part time? OMG HOW and WHEN do you find time to relax and reflect?
I am going to check out that website. I like the
name 'flylady' lol

Guest

Post by Guest » Thu Apr 03, 2008 4:59 am

I find that sleep is over-rated. LOL :)

Just kidding.

I take either one or two classes per semester online or at night (only one night per week)...plus my kids aren't small (21 this month and 11), so they can take care of SOME of their own needs! :) Now my husband...he's another story! LOL :)

I hope you find some good info on in flylady. the FLY in flylady stands for Finally Loving Yourself...she is very positive. I don't participate regularly on there anymore (it's all free info - FYI), but once I established the habits...the ones that really helped me stuck with me and continue to help me stay (somewhat ;)) organized!

Hey - if you have to schedule an appointment with yourself for YOU-time...DO IT! And keep that appointment! You are important and you matter! :)

Hope you have a great day!

Dawn

Guest

Post by Guest » Thu Apr 03, 2008 5:19 am

Hi Dawn;

I am getting my hair done on Saturday!- yay a little 'Me' time for a few hours-
& then I scheduled a facial for the next saturday!
I'm getting it!! & I am not going to obsess about
'organizing' I'll do what I can. :)

Guest

Post by Guest » Thu Apr 03, 2008 5:28 am

GOOD FOR YOU!

You'll have to tell me about that facial! I've never had one but they sound AMAZING!

That's right about the organizing...take care of you and the other stuff will fall into place!

ENJOY! :)

Dawn

Guest

Post by Guest » Thu Apr 03, 2008 6:12 am

Also, I am 'swamped' with a lot to do at work;
So I just delegated a report to one of the girls ;) It really helped to free up some time so I can
do the important things-- Thank You -you are my
inspiration today :)

Guest

Post by Guest » Fri Apr 04, 2008 2:48 am

That is so sweet of you! Thank you!

Enjoy your hair appointment and your "You time" tomorrow! You deserve it!!! :)

Dawn

Guest

Post by Guest » Fri Apr 04, 2008 6:37 am

I'm at a different stage of life than you guys are now but I can remember the hectic, chaotic, crazy days! I made it through all that and am actually still sane! (other than the anxiety thing which is now a lot better) And so will you Deb.

Guest

Post by Guest » Fri Apr 04, 2008 7:04 am

Hi Deb.

You have to go to work, but could you ask your family to help with housework. I remember when everyone had their chores. That was nice. :) When I get to a point where I'm tired of cooking (usually in summer), I would cook enough food for about five days and heat it up. Nobody ever complained because it still tasted good.

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