Sorry for your loss. Each miscarriage is different for everyone, yet there is a common loss between all of us. I have lost 2 and have not been able to have children. The one thing that gives me comfort is knowing I have two very special angels in heaven. I think of them often and the months I miscarriage is like a day I remember to celebrate their angel wings. Knowing they are in heaven and at peace gives me peace.
Hope this helps and know you are not alone and my prayers will be with you and your angel is looking out for you.
A misscarriage has me without hope.....
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rose_thorn98
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WOW... i can definetly relate to alot of u..I too loss my son... I was 20wks pregnant.. (5months), and had just found out 2wks prior that he was my son, which i already knew.. my loss was due to my cervix being to weak to carry him. and i still blame myself. it was my body, that let him go. i recently am slowly accepting that god is thee only one that create and take.. again, not to punish, or hurt me, but I believe, that, God chose me to have an angel. and I am strong to go thru this. no one in my family let alone friends have ever dealt with something like this. so i can relate when u say i felt alone, and that something is wrong with me. this nov will be his one year he's been gone. He sleeps by my bed side, in his little urn.. I look at him, talk with him, and thank him for all the joy he's brought to my life. he is my first son, and one day will be a big brother. were in no rush to try again, were enjoying the memories he's brought to our life..
instead of seeing the bad, the negative, focus on the joy.. the experience u got from that pregnancy.. the changes in ur body. how exciting it was to go thru it. it may have been a short time, but there are so many people that will never be able to experience it.. like some in this forum that are unable to concieve. god has plans for all of us. i know when the time is right, he'll bless me with another child.
go a head and grieve, feel sad, but also know u have a special lil someone thats waiting for u up above.
til then, write a letter to ur baby... of the experience u had once u first found out u were pregnant. that truly helped me. alot.
ur going to be ok. ur baby will never be forgotten, always speak of ur baby. remember him always. and make ur baby proud to be thier mommmy..
are angels are together, playing, watching over us... i love that about my son. wil be together again..
god bless
instead of seeing the bad, the negative, focus on the joy.. the experience u got from that pregnancy.. the changes in ur body. how exciting it was to go thru it. it may have been a short time, but there are so many people that will never be able to experience it.. like some in this forum that are unable to concieve. god has plans for all of us. i know when the time is right, he'll bless me with another child.
go a head and grieve, feel sad, but also know u have a special lil someone thats waiting for u up above.
til then, write a letter to ur baby... of the experience u had once u first found out u were pregnant. that truly helped me. alot.
ur going to be ok. ur baby will never be forgotten, always speak of ur baby. remember him always. and make ur baby proud to be thier mommmy..
are angels are together, playing, watching over us... i love that about my son. wil be together again..
god bless