Question

bernard123 · Post by **bernard123** » Fri Jan 23, 2009 5:21 am

Hey guys...I haven't been around in a while...I hear Lucinda joined her company with another one and that her husband died? What gives?

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Fri Jan 23, 2009 7:28 am

I did not here of his passing but when you mentioned it I decided to look it up and he died back in June 08. Then I read a not so nice article and it stated he took his own life. I don't know if it is true but boy did it hit me like a ton of bricks and I am currently feeling anixous. I just feel real awful for Lucinda but some how I believe she will survive.

rose_thorn98 · Post by **rose_thorn98** » Fri Jan 23, 2009 8:55 am

Unfortunately, it appears David did take his own life. Here is a link to the Malibu Surfside newspaper
<A HREF="http://www.malibusurfsidenews.com/archives/06122008.pdf" TARGET=_blank>http://www.malibusurfsidenews.com/archi ... 008.pdf</A>

There is a short article about it on page 2 and an obituary on page 16. I know it's been 6 months but our thoughts and prayers are with Lucinda and her family.

Megun · Post by **Megun** » Fri Jan 23, 2009 10:03 am

I don't mean this to be rude, but I feel that for the privacy of the family, the events of his death should have never been brought to our attention. I've known about this for awhile now, but I never thought of sharing it here. When it first happened(June 08) There were alot of people that asked if any of us knew what happened. I remained silent. This is a program for anxiety and depression. Therefore, a story like this can make it very uncomfortable and frightening for some here. Especially when it happened to be a founder of this program. Again, I don't mean to be rude, I just don't think it was necessary to expose. There was a reason why the article was kept from all of us.

Sincerely,
Robin

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sat Jan 24, 2009 2:14 am

Wow...I didn't know that...Mom of 6...I hear what you are saying, but if it's to hard to read...Don't read it....It bothered me as well, but doing the program doesn't it say challenge your fears specifically? I paid a lot of money for this program and the counseling, so I feel I should have a right to know. I don't want to be "sold" anything. Not saying by any stretch that that's what happened. The program helped me, ubt then after reading what happened knocked me back a few inches nothing more. If you wanted to state that to me, you could've pm'ed me...

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sat Jan 24, 2009 5:36 am

Bernard, I knew someone would take offense("I don't mean this to be rude") to this, however I didn't think it would be you

All you did was ask a question, so this wasn't meant for you. I was referring the person that gave the article listing. I'm sorry..and you're right, if someone didn't want to read it, they shouldn't look into it. I was just trying to keep others from being anxious about what they read

And I felt that the family would appreciate the privacy...that's all! No harm done.

Blessings,
Robin

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sat Jan 24, 2009 6:01 am

Hey Bernard. Miss you. How have you been doing ???

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sat Jan 24, 2009 6:47 am

I am so sorry to hear about David's passing. I feel like a member of the family as a result of having joined the stresscenter community and really appreciate the caring and kindness that is being shown to Lucinda at this time. Let's keep that going...

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Mon Jan 26, 2009 3:00 am

I feel like el crappo now!!! I'm not gonna lie...I was a lil down when I heard that, I was just like why???? It's like when a person get's caught up in this mess, it's almost like it's no turning back. I've been looking back feeling good about the things that went away for no reason, like the crazy thoughts, thinkin i would say something crazy @ any given moment, all that's gone (was) and I didn't even know it. I apologize I didn't really take offense I just was caught off guard when I heard how he died. This is still a great program, but mmmaaannn wow...Dee..How u doin girl? What you think about YA BOI PRES OBAMA!!!!!

epa · Post by **epa** » Mon Jan 26, 2009 3:22 am

Good morning Bernard.

I am SOOOOO PROUD of him!!!!
I knew he would do it!