Changes, How do we make them?

[SoWhatif]

J it is NOT your fault.

[tina martin]

Jamie, everything is not lost. Hurdles can and do make us stronger to bounce back better than before. The person you are and the excellence of your work speak for themself. We love you, stand by you. All will be well.

[Paisleegreen]

J, I'm so glad to hear from you. All is not lost, just as T said, you are a strong woman. We care about you. P

[tina martin]

Paislee your post is so welcome after a long night and day. It is my firm belief that whatever happened can be repaired and can even turn out for the better. People are not sheltered from problems of their own. They want to help, they want to be understanding, they want to be kind.

We will see this through and that beautiful soul of J's will shine on others. Hope you are having a good day, P.

[Paisleegreen]

Yes, Tina, I'm having a good day! Glad to hear from you as well. Yes, we all want to help others overcome their pain and help carry their burdens. Take care, J, we're here for you. Paislee

[tina martin]

Yes, we do want to help, P. Admittedly, it is a double-edged process: we help others; we help ourself. We don't want you, J, to throw the towel in, as we won't. You, J, have too much invested in the job you earned. Do not give it up. Please don't give it up. If you missed a day or so, so be it. That happens to anyone. Who doesn't miss days at work? We all have done that.

OK, enough from me. You know I don't pray (found out a long time ago that no-one is listening closely), but you must know you are in my thoughts and in my heart.

[Paisleegreen]

Hi, J, I agree with T, you have much invested in your work, that missing a couple of days won't destroy or deter you from all the hard work you put into it. We're thinking about you and hoping for your return to us. Hugs, Paislee

[tina martin]

Paislee, it is so wonderful that you are here. The larger world out there is falling apart with natural and man-made disasters. Must we fall apart too? We can include the times we live in as a big time contributor to our anxieties. It could even be unconscious. I took my first yoga class after 9/11. It is when I got into exercise and ultimately into relaxation/meditation which is also part of the program here.

Soon I will go to the gym. It is never easy to get into the car, but I do it. I do 15 stations, 4 sets at each. There is a bent over 90 year old man who sometimes is there. He pulls weights heavier than me. Such an inspiration. Enjoy the budding trees. I like hearing the busy birds.

[Loveslife]

I just wanted to let everyone know that I am alright. Today was my day off, and tomorrow too. Today I caught up on many things around my home and also went to see a chiropractor. My spine was/is out of alignment.

I hope everyone has a chance to see the super moon tomorrow night. I'm looking forward to it.

Take Care.
Loveslife.

[Loveslife]

i don't know how to repair the damage. he is blaming me, and my daughter won't talk to either of us.
i talked to my psychiatrist and i can't see her for 2 weeks because of my work schedule. she said i could call her in case of emergency.
i feel everyone in my department knows.
i dont know how to repair the damage. i feel so upset. i'm sorry.