Your FiL will need constant care either at home or elsewhere. Unfortunately I am all too familiar with TIA's and strokes. Sometimes they can't even be detected with all the tests, but do their damage.
You, dear Paislee, need to find time and space and quiet to take care of yourself.
Changes, How do we make them?
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Paisleegreen
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Re: Changes, How do we make them?
Hi Tina and J, they are off! I have the place to myself, except two sons are unloading the widow lady's stuff into our shop. They will be heading out again to her house w/ others to help pack up boxes and load up the trailer again.
I plan on taking a bath and relax, although the sunshine and warm temps this late afternoon is calling me to go trim some plant see what tulips are poking up from the ground. I heard either Mourning Doves or Quail this morning. More busy type of chatter or calling. Not the sad sounds that a Mourning Dove makes in the late summer afternoons.
My Grandson has discovered my glass ball I float in my pond and broke it. The last of a bunch of 3 inch Japanese Net balls from an estate sale many years ago. Sniff...
If I'm lucky I can catch him with them and take them away. So I might have some more hidden, but he found one I missed I guess. Now I buy Christmas Ornaments that look like the floating glass net balls, but have to bring them in during the winter and now while my Grandson is little and mobile.
Well, after the niece that was visiting from out of state was through filming Grandpa, our conversation ended up where I told her I had my first panic attack last spring and then she started to get emotional and talk about how they aren't fun and noone understands why she can't hold a job or go places or do things. She was trying to hold back tears while she was talking. So we had a good short visit about that after the men folk left. She's had a hard time with her anxiety and mental disability.
As I was writing this thinking about the bath I was going to get in, I suddenly became my Grandson's babysitter, so he had a snack, then his mother came and got him. So doing any garden work will have to wait for tomorrow, but it looks like I get to take out the garbage cans.
Paislee
I plan on taking a bath and relax, although the sunshine and warm temps this late afternoon is calling me to go trim some plant see what tulips are poking up from the ground. I heard either Mourning Doves or Quail this morning. More busy type of chatter or calling. Not the sad sounds that a Mourning Dove makes in the late summer afternoons.
My Grandson has discovered my glass ball I float in my pond and broke it. The last of a bunch of 3 inch Japanese Net balls from an estate sale many years ago. Sniff...
If I'm lucky I can catch him with them and take them away. So I might have some more hidden, but he found one I missed I guess. Now I buy Christmas Ornaments that look like the floating glass net balls, but have to bring them in during the winter and now while my Grandson is little and mobile. Well, after the niece that was visiting from out of state was through filming Grandpa, our conversation ended up where I told her I had my first panic attack last spring and then she started to get emotional and talk about how they aren't fun and noone understands why she can't hold a job or go places or do things. She was trying to hold back tears while she was talking. So we had a good short visit about that after the men folk left. She's had a hard time with her anxiety and mental disability.
As I was writing this thinking about the bath I was going to get in, I suddenly became my Grandson's babysitter, so he had a snack, then his mother came and got him. So doing any garden work will have to wait for tomorrow, but it looks like I get to take out the garbage cans.
Paislee Re: Changes, How do we make them?
J, you are not the loser, it is HE. Please file charges. It will not end until he is dealt with.
If he was a man he would not be doing this. He is sick get away from him.
J You need not have any embarrassment here. It is good for him that I do not know his address. Please go to work as they can help you.
If he was a man he would not be doing this. He is sick get away from him.
J You need not have any embarrassment here. It is good for him that I do not know his address. Please go to work as they can help you.
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Dear John, I suggest you crawl back under your rock, unless you prefer reading about yourself in the newspapper.
You may be able to abuse your wife, you can not abuse me. If and when they find you, the last things you will have seen may be your life flashing before your eyes.
You may be able to abuse your wife, you can not abuse me. If and when they find you, the last things you will have seen may be your life flashing before your eyes.
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Paisleegreen
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Re: Changes, How do we make them?
Okay, J, you posted a blank posting. Does this mean you are in trouble? Why does F get after DH. I guess I don't know all the story, except that you were not wanting to stay w/ DH and then you have changed your mind. I hope all is well with you. P
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tina martin
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Re: Changes, How do we make them?
Jamie dear, we are all terribly worried about you. Can you please let us know how you are? Love.........T
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I went to work, but I o erslept and
Was Late. J. Got me out of a meeting on the house phone and the whole auditorium heard her screaming at me and demanding answers. I stumbled home at 4. He is gone. I don't know where he is. B. Called crying from jail. Julie won't speak to me. I am vomitting from nerves. The whole hospital and Julie knows. I said I made it up. I am never going back to work again. I am heavily medicated.
Was Late. J. Got me out of a meeting on the house phone and the whole auditorium heard her screaming at me and demanding answers. I stumbled home at 4. He is gone. I don't know where he is. B. Called crying from jail. Julie won't speak to me. I am vomitting from nerves. The whole hospital and Julie knows. I said I made it up. I am never going back to work again. I am heavily medicated.
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Please forgive me J. Are you able to contact your Dr.?
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Tomorrow. I'm to sedated. He emailed me from a hotel and says he is tryingvtoblook atvhimself in the mirror. He also went to his doctor. I want to die. Its all my fault. No more aboutvthis. No more.