There is a guy who must weight about 50 pounds more than me in town. Two Halloweens ago at our school, a little child was attacking my kid. This child must have been 4 or 5. He was dressed up and was acting out. He was out of control. He started hitting my 6 year old and started in with another child. I was telling him to stop and I would have to tell his mother. The other child's parents were outraged too.
When I did see the mother I must have looked very angry. I can look very angry. I told her her son was out of control. She kind of ran away with her kid because she didn't want to deal with it. This big guy said something to her. I think he said something to her about me. Maybe like pay no attention to him or the kid was that bad or something. I know I sound paranoid but I don't think I am. I am highly intuitive.
I think I must have given this guy a dirty look or two after that.
Me and this guy have never spoken once. But there is a vibe there. Two times we has walked right by me very closely as if trying to intimidate me. I admit maybe this is my imagination, but I am not sure.
Tonight when I went to a parents kids event I walked into the room and there he was with his eyes locked right on me! I looked right at him and he looked away.
How do I deal with this? I don't want any problems with people in town.
Big Guy in Town
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That is some excellent advice. Thank you!Originally posted by Sparkus:
As long as you have nothing to prove there is no reason to fight. Keep his behavior outside of your circle and let him own it. Don't be threatened or allow yourself to be controlled. Be solid inside yourself and too big to let someone else pull your strings is my advice.