porn guilt

azdoc · Post by **azdoc** » Tue Jan 15, 2008 4:01 am

okay i know this is gross im 25 male im engaged to the love of my life and we have been saving are selfs if u no what i mean. lately ive been under alot of stress new job just started school. so one night i look up porn on my pc adult porn and i cliked on an image of a adult female when i got to a teen porn site i freaked out and turned of my computer now i feel guilty number one for looking at porn when i have a great girl and number to im worried constantly that im going to jail even though im not some kid porn freak can somebody help me. and it happened one time

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Tue Jan 15, 2008 4:26 pm

Hi azdoc. You are not going to jail for looking at porn. You are 25 years old. You are an adult. There is nothing wrong that you were curious and looked at porn. But be careful because it can become addictive to some people. You have not betrayed your girlfriend. Calm down. It's okay.

DeeDee.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 1:16 pm

thanks im glad a women understands i tthank you.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 1:49 pm

If you want to look at porn, I recommend DVDs or magazines or books, that way no one is going to freak when the history is on your computer. It is okay once in awhile. My husband and I view separately for our pleasure and then sometimes we use it to enhance our experience. We used to rent them here and there. We laughed about it a lot. I think you will know if it becomes out of control but do not beat yourself up! Maybe find out how she feels about it. I know when my husband does it because he leaves the TV on channel 3; it is funny because I was just teasing him about it last night. Then, I told him I was reading a dirty book last weekend. It is natural to fantasize and we are human.