Hello Liz:
Well, I have not read any of your online posts until today ! How long have you been studying the bible ? Were you raised as a Christian ? The last thing I read in the bible was Chronicles and it wasn't very uplifting ! Do you take Bible Classes ? Who is your guide ? I was raised Lutheran, which I believe was started by Martin Luther and he used to be a Catholic before that ? Cannot remember for sure. I am not sure if I am a Christian, or not, right now or what I believe in. Do you explore other religions and their writings too ? I haven't been on the Peer Support website for a while. I will write again soon. Thanks for listening. Lynda Lu.
could I be gay or bi, please help, what do you think
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aliengal24
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Cuttingirl,
I just read this thread and am really glad someone has discussed this! I know exactly how you feel. I'm a 25 year old female and I've always felt attracted to the same sex as well. I've had boyfriends since I was 14 and am in a very loving committed relationship with my boyfriend of three years. I've also experimented with females in my teenage years and early twenties, but nothing serious. I always wondered what it would be like to be in a relationship with a female. Although, I'm always drawn to males. Most all of my friends are males. I have a hard time connecting with females. I think what we are is bisexual. My boyfriends knows and some of my friends know. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. The way I feel is that I was born this way. You're not alone though, as I'm sure you already know! I think it just means we like more people than most : ) haha. Hope to hear a response!
I just read this thread and am really glad someone has discussed this! I know exactly how you feel. I'm a 25 year old female and I've always felt attracted to the same sex as well. I've had boyfriends since I was 14 and am in a very loving committed relationship with my boyfriend of three years. I've also experimented with females in my teenage years and early twenties, but nothing serious. I always wondered what it would be like to be in a relationship with a female. Although, I'm always drawn to males. Most all of my friends are males. I have a hard time connecting with females. I think what we are is bisexual. My boyfriends knows and some of my friends know. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. The way I feel is that I was born this way. You're not alone though, as I'm sure you already know! I think it just means we like more people than most : ) haha. Hope to hear a response!
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Brandi Menifee
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I've had similar thoughts and fantasys!! However i have never been grossed out by the male penis, I love it!! I'm married to the man of my dreams, been in love with him since high school, and we are noe 31 and 32 yrs old. I've shared with him thoughts and feelings i've had about being curious on how it would b if i were with another woman, and feeling like i would want to have that experience. Sometimes i feel like i would want to do it, and may enjoy it, but other times i feel grossed out by it, and feel that i prolly would not be able to go through with it. I guess until it ever presented itself, i really don't know what I would do. I had a few encounters with girls when we were all little, curious girls i guess, but did not carry that same behavior with girls as I got older, I was boy crazy!!! But then a few years ago, became very attracted to a woman that I became good friends with, we often talked about experimenting with each other, but it never happened. I still have fantacys about being with a woman, but again, not sure if I would really do it or not, cuz I go back and forth with it. But i feel u!!!
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