People are laughing at my situation

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Thu Jun 26, 2008 12:38 pm

Hi shalini:
Oh I am sorry to hear that you are feeling so much grief still. I understand.
It is painful to give up a life we lived for 9 years, even if it was a bad life.
Your X was not good for you - and he won't be good for this new "one" that he has either.

But you are going to have a new, better life!

When we are in a lot of pain it is so easy to believe that others are laughing. Especially when it is kind of a "pride " type pain.
I know. I've been there.
We are all here for you!!!
You are going to be okay. Just hold on!!!

You left a life of pain. It wouldn't have gotten any better. And it won't be better for those you left behind.
But it can be better for you! You are going to be well.
And there will be someone really nice for you WHEN YOU ARE READY. So be real patient with yourself.
Be really kind to yourself.
And don't give too much thought about what others are thinking. You have plenty of friends here.
Just hang on!!!
MaryJane

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Fri Jun 27, 2008 4:28 am

I want to thank you all so much for the wonderful response. I'm so glad we have this wonderful supprt group at our finger tips I don't think I can battle this pain without you all to talk to. Thank you - thank you - thank you

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Mon Jul 07, 2008 11:32 am

There are always going to be people out there like that. Nobody likes to hear that someone is talking about you behind your back, it hurts. Hopefully it will die off and they will lose interest in your situation. If it doesn't and you feel confident enough, I would suggest confronting them or a particular person who seems to be the "ring leader" and put them on the spot. Let them know what you have heard, and that it hurts they take pleasure in your pain, and how insensative that is to do to another person. How would they feel if it was happening to them. It may make them step back and think about it in a different perspective? Be strong. You may even feel better for sticking up for yourself. Good luck and I hope it all gets better for you!