That was a really great message you just sent us. Too bad there weren't that many replies. I would have to agree with what you are saying, you are absolutely right. Lucinda said something along those lines in one of the cds. It was about problem solving. We are good problem solvers because when we have anticipatory anxiety we are looking at the obsticals, we are planning, imagining and makign decisions. The only problem is, is that we are doing this with "smudged" glasses. We can clean those glasses and start using our skills for better instead of worse.
Mike