I have found people have definitly noticed a difference in me and I have found to be butting heads big time with my Mother of all people. She just doesn't let up about the fact I'm not going to take on her stress and guilt ridden opions and thoughts anymore she really can't handle it! I'm trying my best to just let it go, went and did laundry instead of arguing anymore lol it worked, she said sorry and I had let it go, it was a great feeling!Almost there :)
I have listend to all the cd's and I am glad I have. I'm at week 9 or 10, I still have things I need to work on and deal with and to be honest thinking that hard about the past present can make me feel a bit nutty I have found people have definitly noticed a difference in me and I have found to be butting heads big time with my Mother of all people. She just doesn't let up about the fact I'm not going to take on her stress and guilt ridden opions and thoughts anymore she really can't handle it! I'm trying my best to just let it go, went and did laundry instead of arguing anymore lol it worked, she said sorry and I had let it go, it was a great feeling!
I have found people have definitly noticed a difference in me and I have found to be butting heads big time with my Mother of all people. She just doesn't let up about the fact I'm not going to take on her stress and guilt ridden opions and thoughts anymore she really can't handle it! I'm trying my best to just let it go, went and did laundry instead of arguing anymore lol it worked, she said sorry and I had let it go, it was a great feeling!-
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Kudos to you!!
Way to go. You changed and so she has to change if she wants a relationship with you. A wise lady told me that once. The thing I found is that I couldn't control how my other person changed and frankly I don't like it that much, but it was her choice. And I need to decide if the new me is going to stick to her guns or if I'm going to buckle under. I'm thinkin' I like the new me so that is that.
Congratulations.
Way to go. You changed and so she has to change if she wants a relationship with you. A wise lady told me that once. The thing I found is that I couldn't control how my other person changed and frankly I don't like it that much, but it was her choice. And I need to decide if the new me is going to stick to her guns or if I'm going to buckle under. I'm thinkin' I like the new me so that is that.
Congratulations.