My apology to all

Barb G. · Post by **Barb G.** » Sat Mar 22, 2008 6:41 am

I'd like to take this time to apologize to everyone who has heard me on chat or in the forums complaining about our house situation. I have been very negative about it and thru the process bringing on much more stress to my husband and myself. Possibly I've had people think they're sick of my complaining. This has been 9 mo. and no matter how things turn out, it's time to move on. So if you catch me going back to complaining about that I'm asking the you gently remind me of turning over a new leaf. I value each and every one of you. I wrote in the book review about the book I just started "Lord, Change my Attitude" (Before it's too late). I pray this will remind me of my many blessings. Next time someone asks "how do you like your new home" instead of saying "lets not talk about it" or you wouldn't believe all the problems and then ramble on about each one, I will answer "you should see the beautiful sunsets we have." Does that sound better. Again I thank many of you who have had to put up with me both on the forums and on chat. *D* especially for being such a good listening ear. You are my friends and I appreciate you so much!

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sat Mar 22, 2008 6:56 am

Barb,

There is no need to apologize my dear friend it is so hard to stay positive when life is dragging you down and everyday seems to hit you with a new problem. I am so proud of you for trying to look at the positive it is so hard when you are in a rut. You are a help to alot of us on here and a dear friend to all, we are so proud of you for trying to move forward from this I know how hard it is for you honey. But seriously you need not apologize you have NOTHING to be sorry for you are a human being and we are all here to support you. As humans we all have our troubles and that is what friends are for sweetie. To be patient and kind and understanding. So good luck on your positive thinking I know you can do it Barb you are strong smart and a great person. I for one appreciate you more than you know. I will keep lifting you up in prayer and help you to stay positive whenever I can. But please don't feel bad no reason to honey you are loved.
God bless you my dear friend
Love ya
Mimi

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sat Mar 22, 2008 6:58 am

i heard a preacher say one time that when you are in a rut to dig a ditch to get out..hope that helps or if it don't then a little smile would help and like mimi said no need to apoligize..love yall...GOD BLESS.
DON

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sat Mar 22, 2008 7:11 am

Hi Barb.

This is where you are supposed to talk, vent, and get advice about your hardships. Don't ever apologize for that. We understand and we want to listen to what you have to say. You are IMPORTANT to us.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sat Mar 22, 2008 12:10 pm

No apology neccesary.

It's good for you to communicate and get things that are bothering you off of your chest. That's what we are here for, to listen and to support one another.

Deliverance- controling that which once controled you.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sun Mar 23, 2008 4:00 pm

Just got home. Had a nice Easter with my in-laws. Don't know what we'd do without them. My brother-in-law keeps giving us input on what to do about our problem. It will get worked out. This could be the week of the devil's defeat.

Thank you guys all for the encouragement. You mean so much to me.

Mimi, your post especially really touched my heart. I'm very tired but hope to read a few pages in that book. Yes it is good to vent but sometimes I talk too much and it only brings me down more. It is a good feeling to pray for others on the conf. call and a good feeling to help on here or chat. You guys can now feel good for helping me. Hope you all had a wonderful Easter. Only a few of us today, but it was still nice.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Mon Mar 24, 2008 6:32 am

Barb you truly are a treasure in not just my life but in the lives of many. I am so glad that you see you don't owe and apology to anyone we love you just the way you are. I am so proud of you though in trying to keep positive I know you can do it girlie I have faith in you my dear sweet Barb. I will keep praying for you and may God bless you and keep you in his arms.
Love you
Mimi