help me to understand

Tic Tac · Post by **Tic Tac** » Sat Jan 30, 2010 4:59 am

You are gonna have to learn that people are gonna question things that you say, and disagree with you sometimes. But i'm not the one that started an arguement here. It was Pansy. She had no right to try to tell me what I should say in any post that i made, whether she agreed or disagreed.

Sounds like a contradiction to me. You told him that he "needs to learn" that people are going to disagree with him sometimes. But then you said someone else has no right to disagree with what you said. So essentially what I got from it is you have every right to write what you did but nobody has the right to disagree with you or call you on your behavior. Hello!

Shifrah · Post by **Shifrah** » Sat Jan 30, 2010 5:59 am

ksl feel free to PM me if you would like any more support. I'm going to unsubscribe from this thread, it's a little anxiety producing.

deedee00 · Post by **deedee00** » Sat Jan 30, 2010 6:41 am

that is NOT what I said. I said she didn't have the right to try to tell me what I should and shouldn't do because she didn't agree. She can disagree with me til the cows come home. I'm not that touchy.

So NO. You are not correct.

You should read that post again.

Anyway. I'm unsubscribing too. You all can keep it going if you like.

Have fun!

Originally posted by Tic Tac:
You are gonna have to learn that people are gonna question things that you say, and disagree with you sometimes. But i'm not the one that started an arguement here. It was Pansy. She had no right to try to tell me what I should say in any post that i made, whether she agreed or disagreed.
Sounds like a contradiction to me. You told him that he "needs to learn" that people are going to disagree with him sometimes. But then you said someone else has no right to disagree with what you said. So essentially what I got from it is you have every right to write what you did but nobody has the right to disagree with you or call you on your behavior. Hello!

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sat Jan 30, 2010 7:46 am

Hi ksl

,
I truly believe that you are trying your best to make this marriage work!!! I have been an observer of people all of my life, and I feel like you are here to let out your feelings!!!

I pray that you continue to do so!!! It is very difficult going through "marital problems" and my heart truly goes out to you!!

I am sure that you are voicing exactly what you feel!!! There is not one doubt in my mind about that one!!!

It is soooooo good to open up to others!!! Holding all of these things in, would be very "unhealthy" for you!!!

I am still praying that God gives you much strength during this trying time in your life!!!

Have a beautiful day

ksl hopeless romantic · Post by **ksl hopeless romantic** » Sat Jan 30, 2010 1:30 pm

Well lastnight she finally talked to me. it took her an hour to get up the courage. She said she simply is not happy anymore. she loves me and she said she has been working on it since this summer to try and rekindle that love and she just cant do it. She asked for a divorce. I will fill you in more tommorrow but right now im exhausted and gonna try and get some sleep. I laid inn bed all night wide awake i could not sleep a wink.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sat Jan 30, 2010 1:45 pm

I'm very sorry, KSL:

You'll get thru' this.

My prayers are with you and your family.
This is very hard.
May God be with you all.
MJ

Misuzu · Post by **Misuzu** » Sat Jan 30, 2010 3:00 pm

oh hun i'm so sorry to hear that....did she just find the feelings disappeared for no reason or did she elaborate? My parents divorced when I was 2.so I can't remember it but as you've been doing...keep the kids first by all means. I'm sure they will be a source of strength for you during all of this. Bless you.

jillzmind · Post by **jillzmind** » Sat Jan 30, 2010 3:07 pm

Ksl
I am so sorry. I have been praying for you guys alot. I hope that you can get some rest and some peace in the days ahead.
Take care okay? You have friends here.

Jill~

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sat Jan 30, 2010 3:38 pm

Hi ksl,
I pray that you get some rest tonight!!! I am soooo sorry for all that has transpired!!! Please continue posting, so you can "vent" those feelings!!! I can only imagine how painful this is for you!!!

I will continue to remember you in my prayers!!! God Bless you ksl...Much Love in Christ Jesus!!!

Wildcard · Post by **Wildcard** » Sat Jan 30, 2010 4:05 pm

KLS,

Not being a religous person I wont get into the bible or anything. I am so sorry for the *^^&*^$%^* you are going thru! In a way I hope this is kind of a release of tension for you. May be even help you relax. Im not trying to be an @$$ I just think that now you can think about you and the kids. I can tell you I am more than glad that I am not going thru it but I sure want to make sure you know I will do whatever I can to help you!!!

I sure hope I didnt offend anyone. I really didnt know how else to say what I did