Do you really and honestly believe your 18 yr old does not know. I am sorry to say the yes two can be togeather and lead togeather while living seperate lives. Do not think for a second that it is not germinating, and growing the SAME disfunction to and in the kids.
Dakereb I feel your just decieveing yourself and your child rather than confront what you have stated is a ongoing disfuntion of your wife, her beginings and the load of deception and anquish your living.
Good luck living with anxiety as it appears that for appearnaces you choose to keep it.
GAD, Marriage, new member
SoWhatIf, you raise a point I have thought about before, in that my kids may think this is a normal marriage and follow the same path. It is very hard to tell what they know and do not know. This is something I will discuss with my wife.
Keep in mind that my wife and I get along very well. We do not fight, and we do tend to each other. It is not a dark, glum existence. We are quite considerate of each other. So it is not all bad. But I would certainly want better for my kids.
Keep in mind that my wife and I get along very well. We do not fight, and we do tend to each other. It is not a dark, glum existence. We are quite considerate of each other. So it is not all bad. But I would certainly want better for my kids.