I succeeded in leaving a hated job. So why do I feel down?

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Fri Oct 24, 2008 11:44 pm

You are under a lot of stress right now, starting a new job. I'm sure you don't know what to expect (kind of like you already knew what evil you had on the old job). The bank is definitely added stress. I say just take a break. Try to be less affected and more effective

(I hope I got the e and a right). I know its simple advice but true. Try not envision this stuff compiling on you but think about how well you handled the last position, your time off and how you will have the money to pay the debt. And don't sweat the other stuff. Not worth it. Enjoy your time off. Us anxiety prone people tend to take our time off to beat ourselves up till we have to go back so we are totally beaten down when finally do go back

Carolyn Dickman · Post by **Carolyn Dickman** » Mon Oct 27, 2008 3:06 pm

goodwillchic,

Then if you can take the boredom, I wouldn't move during this time.

The the only thng really complicated at this point is navigating the computer system. But this will come in time.

Anyway, I really enjoy talking with you.

. Thank you.

So far no one else has really responded to any of my posts.

Willow5 · Post by **Willow5** » Mon Oct 27, 2008 3:20 pm

~HealthyMe~

Try to be less affected and more effective (I hope I got the e and a right).

Gotta you.

What you said here is true.

My big nemesis is the bank because I can't get over how last year I was late one time--no big deal. Now? They sic the dogs on me because I am 18 days late? 10 years ago when I was in collections, the collections agencies didn't start hasseling me til after the 30 day mark. Why because the economy is tight so the bank starts squeezing their customers? I understand this is the point of my anger: my belief in not being hassled so early is being threatened.

Well, I don't have to bank with them if this is their procedure. I closed up everything last week. In my next payment by mail, I thought about including my cut up bank card. Being Italian, this would be my own version of the horse's head scene in "The Godfather."

I probably won't do this, but if I get another call I may wish they become the next Lehman Brothers.

Over the weekend, I rediscoverd 3 books I had on anger. I think this will definitely will help with the bank.

Thanks so, so much for the reply.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Mon Oct 27, 2008 4:28 pm

Hey Charlie, Can you elaborate on what happened with the bank? Maybe I can help you with some things or share some experiences of my own with financial organizations.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Wed Oct 29, 2008 2:39 pm

You see? This is why this forum is so awesome!

Thank you, thank you jasminemody! I am writing down all the info in a Word document and will be emailing you @ your Display Email in a few minutes.

I cannot thank you enough for your offer and assistance.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sat Nov 01, 2008 9:17 am

Hi Charlie, No Problem and you are very welcome. All I know that is that the outside world wants you to spend, spend, spend and then when you can't cough up the money, they want to harass you. You have to be really careful with credit cards and bank cards. I hate spending just for that reason. But I have now learned that keeping a rolling balance on yuor credit card and making sizable payments on them can make your credit score better. Just make sure you stay within your limits and know that you ARE able to pay back what you creditted.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sat Nov 01, 2008 1:21 pm

I emailed you at your Yahoo email.