Friend upset

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hehe, well I'm glad jillzmind! I like the way you laid out those questions, I'll keep that in mind next time I need to talk to someone. I think when we're upset, especially after something like this, we tend to operate from a place of anger, which is really the fear of not being loved ect...so I think we can also get a little irrational and take things so personally that we're not looking at the situation for what it is and being able to see the other person's side.
Thanks for the help!