Dear Diary

[SoWhatif]

Tina the cabin sounds awsume. Good luck with the ringing in the bellfree, as it is a drain on emotions.

J thanks for the ideas. I am blessed at the moment with a lady that is a angel. Do not know if I could manage without her or someone like her. She is a blessing for Mom. When it becomes commercial the quality does suffer. It is sad because most of the folks get paid well. Maybe to good that is why they screw around. We have now seen that 51% of Americans do not put anything in front of their own self interests.
I am betting that your understanding of a distorted romance is a braindrain. Here is a Get the book "The verbally abusive relationship by Patricia Evens" and also By Archibald Hart, the book "Unmasking Male Depression" and give them to dh. Tell him that he is on his own until they are read by him after you read the first one. Follow thru with only to the point answers and ignore the rest while in the home. Easier said than done, trust me it will bring some manageabilty to the pain your living. You must be assertive and follow thru and do not get sidetracked with debate or enableing. No means No. I and T and M are real as a nightmare, got it? So is dh with your nightmare.

Hows the store going today? I pray your feeling much better and have many customers grow from your Love of mankind.

Tell M to join us.
R

[tina martin]

R, your post is a tonic. Many thanks. So glad you checked in, terribly worried about J. There is more to my problem than the drum rolls in the ear, but I'll skip that for now. Doubt anything can be done. May start drinking, ha ha.

Wonderful about the lady to help your mom and everyone. Means so very much. We are here for J, always will be as long as the old marbles are working in my head.

[SoWhatif]

I allmost forgot.

Gaslighting, is this what it means?

Gaslighting is a term, often used by mental health professionals (I am not one), to describe manipulative behavior used to confuse people into thinking their reactions are so far off base that they’re crazy.

I believe dh may be the one guilty of employing the tactics.

J it is stinking thinking that must be detoured out of your thoughts, be yourself and ignore him. You are fine.

[SoWhatif]

Hey J.
Where is our bread crumbs ? How about some potatoe skins with mandrin oranges ?
T,
I was talking with a health professional yesterday and she mentioned that there is a large amount of cases of ear issue sickness going around. I know I do not have time for it. Hope the racket is calming down for you.

May get to go riding tonight

[tina martin]

Hi R. Where is J? Am so worried. Can you get in touch with her on FB?

Had a long session getting hearing tested. Thankfully no infection, nothing wrong, a slight hearing loss in that ear. Was given help in "masking" tinnitus and given hope it will get better on its own. If nothing else, am no longer shocked, getting used to the racket.

But, J. What can we do? Feel so helpless. This can be a particularly difficult time of year for some.

[Loveslife]

Dear Diary,
I can't even face R. and T. I feel so embarrassed. i had a very significant breakdown, but M. helped me through it, along with some meds I take on an "as needed" basis.

I'm fine, no worries. Please, no worries.


Love,
J.
XOXO

[Loveslife]

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[NeverADullMoment]

This is good, J, the acknowledgement is priceless and your smile pays any penalty. We all have a day in the ditch now and then.

[NeverADullMoment]

Oops, I see my double has been resurrected. Going to need to track down the other passwords......SoWhatIf we meet for breakfast and share some nourishments?


T have you reviewed coconut oil as a health supplement. There is much to read about possible attributes of the coconut for memory health possibiltys.

[Loveslife]

Deal!!

Let's meet for breakfast. I'll bring the bagels and cream cheese, (not nourishing, but yummy) and fresh (extremely delicious) squeezed Florida Orange Juice that we buy at the farmers market. I'll also bring a Christmas Poinsettia and Fresh figs drizzled with honey....
And fresh Irish Oatmeal with honey for Tina...(I add splenda, a sugar substitute and lite cream) but I recall that Tina loves oatmeal with drizzled honey.