money anxiety

Whizzie · Post by **Whizzie** » Tue Dec 02, 2008 1:38 am

Hoping someone out there has been down this road to help me and others going through this anxious state, which unlike anxiety, is very real.

I shake most of the time and everytime my husband walks in the door, he is angry and the state of the house has this "air" of anger and I start to shake and of course, try to hide.

I've been trying to find a job but with anxiety, finding it very difficult. Can't talk to my husband about it because he would tell me that I'm being a baby and suck it up, just like everyone else has to do.

How do you live with money woes while trying to overcome anxiety? Any suggestions?

SpecialK · Post by **SpecialK** » Tue Dec 02, 2008 8:44 am

First of all your husband should support you. He should not ridicule you. I can understand my boyfriend does not always understand this disorder and you almost feel as if there is a wall between you and your significant other. It is okay if you cannot find a job. The right one will come along. It is hard having this problem. I struggle every single day. Hang in there and the right job/opportunity will come along!

Whizzie · Post by **Whizzie** » Wed Dec 03, 2008 4:26 am

SpecialK,

Thank-you so much for answering my post, it is much appreciated, more than you will know.

Unfortunately, that's him and I realize that he is not going to change. That's partially why I'm going through this course, to eventually be able to move on in life.

Thanks again, I appreciate your support and kind words.