Taking things to serious all the time is driving me crazy

xAngelx · Post by **xAngelx** » Tue Sep 30, 2008 8:09 pm

Sorry to be a bother to everyone but does anyone have a problem with getting your feelings hurt or taking everything wrong? I have not started this program yet but I am ordering it soon...I cant wait...I have been married 4 times ...one guy twice...due to my family back ground being strict...My first marriage was horrible i cant think of anything that went right..I was treated very badly, i was young and he cheated with my best friend or anyone that was around. It seems way down the road now I cannot keep a good relationship...I do not know what im doing wrong...Sometimes im so tired of them walking off that i just make someone mad so they can leave before they do walk off...i didnt realize that my kids cared for years and notice that men they were getting attached to they lost as well..Does anyone know how to stop taking things so wrong or how to not get your feelings hurt over everything that is said...If someone gets mad at me in a relationship or leaves I cant stand not knowing why..I dont understand why they cant just say the reason..Here comes all the panic attacks, not sleeping, not wanting to get out. I dont understand how some can just go and never seem to care and it drives me crazy to the point of weight loss and pretty much home bound just not to run into them..Any input would be great here. Im tired of not being happy and i dont want to be alone all my life.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Wed Oct 01, 2008 1:47 am

Hi Angel...Starting the program seems like a GREAT idea. So many of the thoughts and feelings you posted will be brought up! REMEMBER..you won't succeed in a relationship w/ someone else very easily until you work on YOU 1st! If you're neg. and stressed that brings negativity and stress into ALL aspects of your life. My opinion would be to back off of feeling like you need a relationship RIGHT now and do your program. Follow it step by step and you'll find the answers and the drive to not only be able to commit to someone else but you'll be able to see that YOU are the only person that can TRULY make you HAPPY then if you find someone to SHARE that happiness w/..well then, cudos to you! Give it time & GOOD LUCK!

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Wed Oct 01, 2008 12:30 pm

Hi Liz,
ty for answering my post...I am doing my 1995 program now until i can get the newest one. I know everything takes time, im battling doctors that dont want to give me my medicine, which is low doses....which is causing alot of panic and anxiety along with relationships and all not working for me...
I know i am the one that makes myself happy but since the kids are older and they have heard my problems all their life..it goes over their head...that is why i like to come here and read and just type things ..........it alway gives me hope....I am working on getting the program as soon as i can...Im on 3rd week or old program and so far i am feeling alot better...