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Post by space_caddet7321 » Wed May 12, 2010 7:40 am

ok this may sound extremely retarded but i need to know how to fix this..
ok heres the thing i am 7 months pregnant and i am due july 19th. well some moms at my daughters preschool asked when my due date is and i accidently said june 19th but i get really nerious when im talking to people and sometimes i even stutter when they asked me it felt like i was on a stage in front of a million people. and i didnt correct what i had said. but now i have become really close with them and they are all asking when am i having the baby shower and they want an invite. but im affraid if i invite them and they find out that i due july instead of june im going to look very stupid. so i dont know what to say i dont want to look like a liar. but i also dont want them to think i didnt invite them cause i dont like them. its hard for me to make friends and i feel like i just blew it completely. what would you do?

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Post by Guest » Wed May 12, 2010 12:52 pm

I'd continue on as if nothing happened. If someone questions you, blame it on pregnancy brain, having a preschooler brain or maybe they just misheard. You made a mistake. It's OK. Not like they haven't too. You are forgiven. If they can't handle a mispoken word, and judge you for it, you don't want them as a friend anyway.

Take it easy.
Terri

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Post by Guest » Wed May 12, 2010 1:40 pm

That was a "PERFECT" reply!!! Keep in mind not one person on this planet is perfect, never have been, never will be. Mistakes are part of everyday living, don't beat yourself up over stuff like this. You want to work on lowering your anxiety, not making it worse over a simple slip of the tongue.
Jeff

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Post by Guest » Thu May 13, 2010 5:27 pm

Hey dont worry everyone does that sometimes and I've done it so many times the last 2 weeks it's just crazy and I've been having to talk to people from FEMA , red cross and everything else so just blame it on stress if they ask otherwise just dont even think about it .

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