Assertive behavior

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Moontale
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Post by Moontale » Fri Jan 11, 2008 10:15 pm

Hi, I just wanted to share that I used my assertive behavior telling a friend in a respectful way, using the "I" something I didn't like and she actually congratulate me for being a good comunicator and we already work it out!! I feel so proud.

iHope
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Post by iHope » Sat Jan 12, 2008 12:08 pm

Congrats! This is good to hear and encouraging. I'm being bold - responding to part of the Program that I have not covered yet :) But last year, a good friend shared with me a "type" of Assertive Process she learned. It helps me; when I remember it & remember that being assertive is not bad. Actually some people appreciate knowing (what ever you need to explain). Like Lucinda says "there are 40% of the people who want to (really) know who you (we) are! :D - Also, I responded cuz no one has responded to you yet and I felt you should get a "pat on the back". Now if anyone reads this and knows the program - please put in your "two cents worth"!

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