advice needed

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Mon Jun 08, 2009 6:50 pm

Hellow all, Well,this week I went to church alone.As I walked out the front door I said to my husband,even in the midst of my sorrows I've found something to be happy about. It,s incredibly easy and stress free getting only yourself ready for church.Sooo relaxing.Quiet ,peaceful drive to church.I guess I can get used to it.

Been busy the past couple of days ,sorry for not responding sooner.

Thanks for your concern,advice and support, Liz

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Wed Jun 17, 2009 7:16 am

My advice for you dear: If you desire respect from others to live your life the way you desire then it must also be freely given to others in your life. Your Grandsons deserve respect and the freedom to make choices for their own lives. They may not have the same interests as you do such as going to church. They may not resonate with church and it's messages. Let them go, and trust their lives. Their own lives come with a higher intelligence that will guide them perfectly just like your own life has. If you keep pushing them things will just get worse. Doing this will allow them to discover how to make choices for themselves instead of being forced to do something that someone else thinks is best for them. If they always have to do what the other person thinks is best for them can you imagine what will happen? They will be taking advice from anyone and thats pretty scary. If they learn now earlier on in life how to make choices for them selves they will be more empowered as they grow up and they will be less prone to making bad descisions. They are individuals.
I know sometimes we think we are doing the right thing when it isnt the right thing at all and it's easy to fall into old beliefs or old ideas that have come from other people.
If they dont go to church they will be okay. If they are forced to go then this might create some twisted perceptions for them.
Hope this helps, God Bless you