Little Deven as well as the rest of your family are definitely in my thoughts and prayers, Jennifer. What a horrible thing, hopefully because he is so young and it was stopped so quickly he will be able to work through it and put it behind him, but I hope his abuser has to think about it every day for her lifetime!
Please keep us posted, what a brave little Angel he was to talk to the psych!!!
Hugs, Tara
Please Please Pray for my nephew
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bttrfly & Kita,
Thank you both so much for all of your prayers. Please also pray that she will not lose her kids because of this. They are making it sound like it is her fault and wanting to know why his mom brought him to his grandmothers house. What has the world come to. I do pray that this will all be turned around for something good, and I pray that because he is so young that after the person is convicted that his mind will be earsed of all memory of this. I lost it at work today and I guess it finally hit me and I started crying my eyes out to my supervisor. She made me feel better but I can't believe I lost it the way that I did. I thank you all for your prayers and God bless each one of you.
Jennifier
Thank you both so much for all of your prayers. Please also pray that she will not lose her kids because of this. They are making it sound like it is her fault and wanting to know why his mom brought him to his grandmothers house. What has the world come to. I do pray that this will all be turned around for something good, and I pray that because he is so young that after the person is convicted that his mind will be earsed of all memory of this. I lost it at work today and I guess it finally hit me and I started crying my eyes out to my supervisor. She made me feel better but I can't believe I lost it the way that I did. I thank you all for your prayers and God bless each one of you.
Jennifier
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Jennifer
I'm very glad that he opened up to the psychiatrist and I'm very sorry that he had went through this. Kids do not like staying afraid and fortunately they do open up.
If i can put your mind at ease...I know what it is like because i was molested by my grandfather. The only thing is that i was never forced into doing anything and i was convinced that it was a normal thing and i didn't know any better because i was only like 5. So i'll give you what i know.
your nephew, I'm very certain will be ok...it'll take some time but he will get through this.
It is like a wound...if it wasn't treated than it would keep growing and that is when it could screw the person up. It would be then that the person may become violent and hate his family and feel uncared for...which i am speaking from my own experience...and if it doesn't ever get worked through...thats when it can spread...which i think may have been the issue with the grandma.
Anyways as long as you all give him your support and love him and be there for him then he will turn out just fine...I have alot of faith in this because i had went through the situation i described in the last paragraph and I dealt with it on my own and i got support and caring and help from others and it has helped me out tremendously.
Also i know the grandma did some really horrible things and you have every right to be angry with her but please don't let this anger poison your heart. This lady didn't do it for no reason and there must be some suffering there too. Unfortunately this suffering has spread and i really truely hope that she can work through her own stuff as well...just like i hope that my grandpa can work through his stuff
just to let you know this doesn't mean i'm condoning what happened...I didn't take my grandpa to court because i knew it would kill him and i would feel sooo guilty for causing this but I made damn sure it would never happen again...We lived in a small town and anybody that had kids...I let them know what had happened to me and I also started an investigation. I had to stop it because my mother passed away and my sister was pregnant and i didn't want my sister to loose her baby...I had to later confront him and let him know how it made me feel and what i had done.
Neways I wish you and your nephew the best. I promise you he will be just fine because he has people like yourself that care soooo much about him.
Mike
I'm very glad that he opened up to the psychiatrist and I'm very sorry that he had went through this. Kids do not like staying afraid and fortunately they do open up.
If i can put your mind at ease...I know what it is like because i was molested by my grandfather. The only thing is that i was never forced into doing anything and i was convinced that it was a normal thing and i didn't know any better because i was only like 5. So i'll give you what i know.
your nephew, I'm very certain will be ok...it'll take some time but he will get through this.
It is like a wound...if it wasn't treated than it would keep growing and that is when it could screw the person up. It would be then that the person may become violent and hate his family and feel uncared for...which i am speaking from my own experience...and if it doesn't ever get worked through...thats when it can spread...which i think may have been the issue with the grandma.
Anyways as long as you all give him your support and love him and be there for him then he will turn out just fine...I have alot of faith in this because i had went through the situation i described in the last paragraph and I dealt with it on my own and i got support and caring and help from others and it has helped me out tremendously.
Also i know the grandma did some really horrible things and you have every right to be angry with her but please don't let this anger poison your heart. This lady didn't do it for no reason and there must be some suffering there too. Unfortunately this suffering has spread and i really truely hope that she can work through her own stuff as well...just like i hope that my grandpa can work through his stuff
just to let you know this doesn't mean i'm condoning what happened...I didn't take my grandpa to court because i knew it would kill him and i would feel sooo guilty for causing this but I made damn sure it would never happen again...We lived in a small town and anybody that had kids...I let them know what had happened to me and I also started an investigation. I had to stop it because my mother passed away and my sister was pregnant and i didn't want my sister to loose her baby...I had to later confront him and let him know how it made me feel and what i had done.
Neways I wish you and your nephew the best. I promise you he will be just fine because he has people like yourself that care soooo much about him.
Mike
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Curlygirl, thanks so much for your support and prayers. He will be just fine. God will help us all through this.
NinjaFrodo, I am so sorry that you had to go through what you did. I hate to hear about things like that. I am glad that you have worked through these things. I am sorry to hear that you had to do it on your own time. I do pray that the grandmother will get help as well. I just can't imagine anyone even thinking of a child in that way. It does help me to know that you went through this at a little older age and you were able to get through this. Good on you for telling people to keep their kids away from him. I pray that he will get help because something is wrong with those people. I thank you for your kind words and for all your encouragment. I thank you so much for your inspirational story. God bless you! I will keep you and your granddad in my prayers.
Jennifier
NinjaFrodo, I am so sorry that you had to go through what you did. I hate to hear about things like that. I am glad that you have worked through these things. I am sorry to hear that you had to do it on your own time. I do pray that the grandmother will get help as well. I just can't imagine anyone even thinking of a child in that way. It does help me to know that you went through this at a little older age and you were able to get through this. Good on you for telling people to keep their kids away from him. I pray that he will get help because something is wrong with those people. I thank you for your kind words and for all your encouragment. I thank you so much for your inspirational story. God bless you! I will keep you and your granddad in my prayers.
Jennifier
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It was a painful experience for me however, I am able to help out more in cases like the one you had mentioned with your nephew and i can understand the suffering of others better because of it. So even though this is a very negative situation there can be good to come out of it. I actually plan to write a book someday to give hope to others that go through this because yeah its sad to hear about and alot of people don't know what to do about it.
I'm really glad that you can wish well for the grandma that can be very difficult to do in situations like this and it takes alot of courage. I also thank you for your prayers
If you ever need any advice or anything just pm me.
Mike
I'm really glad that you can wish well for the grandma that can be very difficult to do in situations like this and it takes alot of courage. I also thank you for your prayers
If you ever need any advice or anything just pm me.
Mike
You should write a book. There are alot of people that have no idea what to do in situations like this one. I was at a loss with the whole situation. I had to tell myself that Jesus loves everyone just not their sin. I then had to take a day to know what to say to my sister when she asked me what would you do in my situation. I am trying really hard to live in love towards everyone. I am so happy to know that you are okay even though of your struggles, but I think the book would be a great idea and wonderful therapy. If you do write one I want a signed copy I will keep you in my prayers and thanks so much for your advise you are truly a Godsent.
Jennifier
I will keep you in my prayers and thanks so much for your advise you are truly a Godsent.Jennifier
"The difficulties do not continue forever, yet the value of making it through them will always be yours."