In need of Prayer

cari82 · Post by **cari82** » Tue Mar 25, 2008 11:44 pm

Due to my stress and anixety i have been really hard on my husband who was my boyfriend. We got married last May.
Last night he told me that he's not sure if he's still in love with me. He said he loved me, but felt very unhappy and cold and not sure if he could get the "feeling" back. He was no longer sure if he could ever get it back.
He started by saying we needed to seperate, but he's had medical stuff he's getting over and i was there through all of that. It wasn't easy but i was there.
I told him i deserved him being here for me. So he said he would stay and really try to work on it and give 100% but right now he's not sure if this is right.
He's unhappy, knows it has to do with me but not sure what it is and not sure if it can be fixed. I came from a divorced family and he knew before we ever became serious that divorce was not an option for me.
I started this program two weeks ago and i have learned a lot. I am finally getting better, so why is he wanting to leave now?
I need prayer and advice but LOTS of prayer. i can't fix this but God can. What God puts together no man can pull apart.
-Cari

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Wed Mar 26, 2008 12:32 am

I am praying right now Cari for you. Please God help Cari and her husband you know their needs and are there for them. Wrap your loving arms around Cari. Amen.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Wed Mar 26, 2008 7:54 am

Do the two of you go to church together? Also have you thought about marriage counseling? It sounds to me like maybe your husband is going through some things he needs to work out. You don't just wake up one day and not love the person you are with. I have heard alot of peoples marriages having problems. I myself have had issues with my own. Keep faith and keep praying for him as well. I would recommend going to marriage counseling with a preacher. If he wants to give it 100% then he will go with you. God bless you and keep us updated!

Jennifier

Donna marie · Post by **Donna marie** » Wed Mar 26, 2008 8:05 am

cari,
what jennifer said i agree with.i know that when you are going through the program ans as you get more into it yo will get the tools and skills you need to get through the panic and anxiety.i have been in your shoes and know how you feel..we will lift you up in prayer when we meet at 10 pm on wednesday night.hang in there. knowthat you are a child of GOD ...talk together and go to church together and leave it on the altar for GOD to handle..hope that helps you ..take care and know that you arein our thoughts and prayers and GOD BLESS..
DON

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Wed Mar 26, 2008 8:43 am

Cari, my warmest and sincere wishes for you and your husband. As hard as it is and may sound sometimes situations in our lives change for a reason, even our relationships with the ones we love. I hope all works out for you. "Let Go let God"

"D", Be safe on your Mission and my blessings to you. I read that you are writing a book! That's wonderful. I have written one [severa] also and have been working on finding a publisher. That's been a few years already but I am not giving up, I feel it will happen one day. It began during difficult times in my life and now when I'm stressed I turn to my writing.
How wonderful that you found your childhood sweetheart. I wish you a tranquil and happy future.

Barbara U. Cherish