dealing with negative people
Hey just need to vent. I had a little ordeal with a girl at work and everything in me wanted to hurt this person. But Christ in me is stronger and in the end I layed my self down and Jesus won. I just have knots in my stomache now. I dealt with it but I still feel angry inside. Well I did get extremely worked up so it probably just left me drained. She is just so hard to get along with so bitter and negative and has said things behind my back and I have been holding it in bcause i am christian but i now think i should hav confronted her because i was started to harver hate in my heart towards her by holding it all in. why would i want to help her out and cover her shift when I have something importsant???? Well in the end I did because I am a servant to Christ and I talked to her and we both apoligized it went well bt something in me just aint right, then I get scared that it will cause anxiety sand i will feel it tomorrow...ahhhh i am going to go do my relax cd. just needed to vent
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I know how you feel! I have been in your shoes. I just wanted to tell you . That a lady at my job was the same way. I would get so upset it would ruin my whole day and take my joy away. But here is the thing I learned. I had to stop letting her effect me and take MY JOY .I had to give her to GOd. When God showed me this I was like what GOD you want me to pray for her and you know I did . It was hard but I did it and the anger and her gettin to me was gone .I looked at her in a different light . I felt sorry for what she was doing to herself . ALSO I have learned the things about other people that got on my nerves or I did'nt like about them were things I needed to change about me. (funny huh). Hang in there you got good self control ( keep it up) Don't let anyone take your JOY....