Obsess About Sex

Yankeefan · Post by **Yankeefan** » Sat Oct 25, 2008 5:30 pm

All day I obsess about sex, will I perform well tonight or not that by the time we get into bed together I panic and my mind starts racing and if I do manage to get an erection it lasts for maybe 3 minutes when I do manage to "enter" I lose the erection and have not been able to "finish off" for over 6 long months. My wife is geting frusterated as am I, it's demoralizing and I don't know what to do to get past this. Has anybody gone through this that can help? I tried levitra and cialis with no good results. I'm young (in my 20s) and shouldn't need any of that. HELP!!!!!!

CG822 · Post by **CG822** » Sat Oct 25, 2008 8:30 pm

Its a mind thing. You gotta work it out in your mind!!! Its all about the way u think.

Concentrate!!!

Searching for some peace · Post by **Searching for some peace** » Sun Oct 26, 2008 4:30 pm

Well i am a female so don't know much about your problem but i do know that when i started my anti-depressant medication it really messed with my sex life and it takes a very long time for me to uhh be pleasured i guess. I think you may be over thinking the situation with your performance. Just try to relax and don't worry about it things will get better. Mind over matter hang in there!

karenLeigh · Post by **karenLeigh** » Sun Oct 26, 2008 4:47 pm

I'm a female also but I understand..."we" are having issues as well. Go to WebMD they have some good information on this. It really details different reasons why you may be having this. It was called premature "e". Hopefully you will no what I'm saying..since you said the word. This is a difficult subject to talk about but felt like I might could help....since were going thru something related.
Take care and educate yourself!

theatreguy · Post by **theatreguy** » Mon May 11, 2009 6:19 pm

this has been happening to me too. its making me crazy. have you found anything that has worked?

Originally posted by Yankeefan:
All day I obsess about sex, will I perform well tonight or not that by the time we get into bed together I panic and my mind starts racing and if I do manage to get an erection it lasts for maybe 3 minutes when I do manage to "enter" I lose the erection and have not been able to "finish off" for over 6 long months. My wife is geting frusterated as am I, it's demoralizing and I don't know what to do to get past this. Has anybody gone through this that can help? I tried levitra and cialis with no good results. I'm young (in my 20s) and shouldn't need any of that. HELP!!!!!!