Can't help being angry....

You can get EXACTLY what you want out of most any situation if you only think before you react. After building these skills, your anger will work FOR you instead of against you.
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Mark55
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Post by Mark55 » Thu Jun 19, 2008 7:49 am

I usually start to have a good day, then outta nowhere I have a thought, then the thought becomes a worry, then the worry becomes anger. It's very irritating because I just can't help being angry. The thought is "what if I conversate with someone and negative thoughts rush in and completely blank my mind" (theres more depth to it) It doesn't happen, it comes to the mind, becomes a worry, then makes me mad for even thinking it. I keep telling myself "just float with it" "I accept this". But sometimes it's to late and I remain angry until I get home. (Happens at work). If there's anyone that can help me, or give me some tips on this problem, please do so. I appreciate the support.
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bradley1960
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Post by bradley1960 » Wed Aug 20, 2008 12:04 pm

Mark, I'm not going to be much help yet to your quest. I scored 74 on the anger evaluation test in session six and 100 on the assertive behavior evaluation in session seven. That means I'm an angry wimp! I have taken an extra week to review and practice these two sessions. all I can say is it's starting to make changes. You are not alone in your situation. If i don't have something to worry about I can actually make up something in my mind. before session I would have butterflys and tension in my chest and haevy hearty beat. And I didn't even know why. Start positive reinforcing thoughts to interrupt your worry. Sometimes when I don't catch the thought that caused the situation to start I flood my brain with all my good attributes I can think of and wait for my brain to catch up. I will keep you in my mind and my prayers. God bless and keep me updated as I wiil you. Looking forward to sharing many future successes; Bradley

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