I guess if we all made RIGHT decisions, Life would be perfect!
But we dont, and although we hurt when wrong decisions are made, we are learning! Part of growing and wisdom comes from all the decisions and choices we make.
Philip, I dont know your situation, But i do know you can never change another person. But, you can change yourself, how you deal with others and situations your in. This program has helped me so much with my life in those areas.
As much as we would love the person we love to be more this or that,, unless they are willing to change, it wont happen. But you can begin taking care of YOU! I wish you the best! Nelly
Spouse's negativity making me mad
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Heather,
I agree with what DeeDee said earlier. We tend (and I do this always) to worry about the others around us and not even worry about the one that needs it the most...US. So make sure that you take care of #1 and work on getting better. As for your husband I feel your pain with the negativity issues. My wife does alot of negative things and she does not see it and it hurts. I have to say this...don't let the negativity get you down. Focus on good things when it happens and tell him you love him but you can't support his negative attitude. I pray that he will turn around and see what you do every day. I also pray for you too as we are going through this phase in our treatment. I get so frustrated and angry sometimes but I see now that it is really nothing at all to be bent out of shape on. We will make it, so hang in there girl.
Bear Thomas
I agree with what DeeDee said earlier. We tend (and I do this always) to worry about the others around us and not even worry about the one that needs it the most...US. So make sure that you take care of #1 and work on getting better. As for your husband I feel your pain with the negativity issues. My wife does alot of negative things and she does not see it and it hurts. I have to say this...don't let the negativity get you down. Focus on good things when it happens and tell him you love him but you can't support his negative attitude. I pray that he will turn around and see what you do every day. I also pray for you too as we are going through this phase in our treatment. I get so frustrated and angry sometimes but I see now that it is really nothing at all to be bent out of shape on. We will make it, so hang in there girl.
Bear Thomas