I can't find love

MrCleveland · Post by **MrCleveland** » Thu Nov 26, 2009 6:08 am

I'd like to be in a relationship with a girl, but I feel like a zero because even though I can talk to a girl, I can't get to the next step by asking her out. I tried eharmony.com, but I get empty-handed. And since I'm autistic, it's very hard. Is there a webpage where I can find autistics who are looking for love?

Because if I can't get into a relation by the end of next year, my wedding plan for 11/11/2011 will be cancelled and I may either decide to be single forever and be miserable forever...or be gay!

I'll never find Ms. Right.

kar · Post by **kar** » Thu Nov 26, 2009 12:00 pm

Hi, your not alone man¡ I am 30 years old an i have never had a girlfriend, that is pretty miserable. I was very shy in school so i have very poor socializing skills so its very unlikely that i ll ever have a girlfried so I guess the only thing i can tell you is that your not alone and the only thing you can do is keep on trying.

NikiFm · Post by **NikiFm** » Mon Nov 30, 2009 6:38 am

dont worry love will find you...but love works in weird ways...it will probably happen when you least expect it...so dont beat yourself up and dont give up either...it will happen when it happens

woodbridge · Post by **woodbridge** » Mon Nov 30, 2009 7:28 am

Hope this puts in you the right direction.

http://www.weareautism.org/autdat/discussions/121

deedee00 · Post by **deedee00** » Mon Nov 30, 2009 8:43 am

Don't give up guys! Love may happen when you're not expecting it.

That's usually the way it goes. It's hard to find anything when you're looking for it.

Shifrah · Post by **Shifrah** » Mon Nov 30, 2009 11:10 am

I found love when I wasn't looking and didn't want to even look.

You might find your SO when you aren't looking or in a normal place, like a library, museum, home depot, the grocery store or something of that nature.

Try meetup.com and look for something that interests you, it doesn't have to be a singles group, it could be any common interest like bulldogs or Spanish or a Christian group, often singles join groups like these.

galaxie · Post by **galaxie** » Mon Nov 30, 2009 1:25 pm

To those looking for love: Forget about it and figure out what your passion in life is. Is it volunteering at a animal rescue, is hiking outdoors in the summer, maybe kayaking down a river, anyone for studying geology, palentology, dancing, oil painting? You figure it out and get involved with others of like interest; possibly you will meet someone of similar interest. Wish I had done that many years ago, I would then be married to someone I could fully share my life with. Wishing you the best.