I keep losing a job

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Readytobhealed
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Post by Readytobhealed » Sun Sep 27, 2009 12:07 pm

Hello I have be kinda getting depressed lately because I keep losing a job. I get a job and keep it for three months then I get fired. And it is starting to frustrate me a little. I feel a little insufficent perhaps. I dont know my husband and I are trying to start a family. But I back off everytime I lose my job. What should I do im praying . WHen I get the job I cant get happy about the Job because, I get scared Iam going to lose it again. Please help
shawnette braxton

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Post by Guest » Sun Sep 27, 2009 5:06 pm

Analyze what you are doing and the things you talk about around other people.Watch what other people are doing and make sure your working as hard as they are.Make sure your at work on time everyday and be productive. Don`t bring your personal life to work or talk about your business with coworkers. Don`t be a snitch and don`t talk too much.I`m sure if you sit and think about it long enough you will figure out were you went wrong.Then go out there and find yourself another job! Hope this helps :)
Also make sure your uniform,hair and body are clean and presentable everyday!

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Post by Guest » Mon Sep 28, 2009 1:32 am

How many jobs has this happened with? What reason(s) were you given for your termination? Without hearing specifics, there isn't a lot to go on.

I agree with Kristen that maybe you should evaluate what you know that you did or didn't do that could have led to a decrease in productivity and caught your supervisor's attention.

Aside from that, dust yourself off and realize that there are other jobs out there. My motto is "I was looking for a job when I found this one..." Use that and be positive.

Good luck!!

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Post by Guest » Mon Sep 28, 2009 9:15 am

Everything you said kristen would be ok if that wasn't what I was already doing. I dont think I am approachable. Getting to work A hour and half early should be productive enough lol thanks for the advice

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Post by Guest » Sat Oct 10, 2009 6:21 am

I'm in this Step-by-Step Job Search Program and I haven't even gotten a better job after a year.

I need money and so do my parents, because next time they want to 'borrow' money from me (and they now owe me $3500) I'm just going to close my savings account and tell them 'Here, take all my damn money, I know you'll want more'!

That is also why I can't get a car and all I'm doing is waiting and waiting. Well...I might as well give up and start selling stuff since no one is there...not even God!

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Post by Guest » Sat Oct 10, 2009 9:27 am

talk about loosing jobs! lol ive only ever been fired from one job, but ive lost many. sometimes i think its due to sircumstance or due to life changes. recently i was working a job then had to take leave for an emergancy surgery, after i went back i never felt the same way i thought they all were pitting me or watching me to closely but i continued till it got so bad that my husband and i agreed that it was better to quit! im notsure if im ready to go back to the same type of job but i believe to try try and try again! also gotta be ready for it and realy want to!

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