looking4support

stephen25 · Post by **stephen25** » Wed Dec 16, 2009 2:37 pm

does anyone have little or no support around u durin day nnight

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Wed Dec 16, 2009 3:32 pm

Me!

My daughters are tired of hearing me talk about anxiety. My boyfriend will get the boot the very next time he says something negative about me or the program. And I'm serious. My sisters, brothers, and mother is too far or busy to visit. I don't know how my friends have all disappeared.

So, yeah, you're talking about me.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Mon Dec 21, 2009 3:28 pm

I dont got support from my girl at all. She feels like she dont need to take care of one more person in her life besides her kids. I try to explain that its nothing that she needs to take care of she just need to understand what im going throw and just be there for me.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 6:51 am

I know how it feels to not have support. I have been somewhat lucky in finding the support I need from my close co-workers who know what I'm going through. However, it feels crappy that not even my mother or closest sister is there to support me or even want to hear what I go through

I enjoy talking and listening to people so I'm here for anybody who would like to chat.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 7:04 am

Hi Everyone:
I live alone and don't get out just a whole lot.
My children enjoy me more when I just tell them I'm fine.

But I seem to have found all the support I really need here among the people on this forum.
Just reading about others and what they go thru' and the tips they give about solving various problems has all been very valuable to me.
There are success stories on here.
And there are those with a wonderful sense of humor. And people with faith.

Just keep coming back here and keep using the tools of the program.
MJ

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 11:49 am

THANKS ALL.. It really gives me the strength that i need to hear from you all, when spend just half hour.. have the encouragment to continue program,feeling alot better on session3

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 5:30 pm

Yea its hard specially been the women i love so much. She just got out of a 25 year marriage and i think thats why she feels like she doesnt want to deal with this. So im very carefull of not scaring her away. But yea its nice when you have some one to listen and understand what your dealing with. As far as my problem i live day by day and try my best to make a change. I will succeed in life and my problem its just hard to do it very quickly. I enjoy reading your reply's and listing to ppl with the same problems.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sun Dec 27, 2009 4:56 am

For me, It feels like I get one step ahead of my depression and the people around me bring me 3 steps back. I also feel like I battle this battle alone in my life.( except for these forums . I have an extremly critical,picky OCD husband , who is currently in the church of scientology, and belittles anything else that people use,try to help them self's with, As well as a very selfish 30 year old son who feels I was never good enough and is currenlty not speaking to me ( for two months now) because I gave a treadmil to a close friend of the family and didnt think of him first. My boss keeps me on edge , never know when he will explode , so I live in anxiety for 9 hours 5 days a week. I try to follow the program and all the homework and yet not less than 3-4 times a day I am in one way or another brought back to my reality by the people in my life. It's a battle,, I really do not have any support people in my circle of people in my life. I just try to be strong, and fight like hell not to go into the abyss when one of these so called people that love me try to bring me down. The program helps me, but I know I would do soooo much better if I did have support people around me,,,, signed: all alone in my battle...