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by 09lkv
Mon Dec 14, 2009 4:42 am
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: obsessive thinking and relationships. WHAT A WONDERFUL COMBINATION!
Replies: 28
Views: 12273

I've been having another relapse with my anxiety. I've been in a very good relationship for about seven months. The longest relationship I've been in lasted nine. I just keep having really scary thoughts about why we might/should break up. But I so badly DO NOT want to break up with this boy, and I ...
by 09lkv
Sat Aug 15, 2009 11:16 am
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: obsessive thinking and relationships. WHAT A WONDERFUL COMBINATION!
Replies: 28
Views: 12273

Believe it or not I'm pretty sure I went through this too. My explanation is that the very beginning of a relationship is the euphoric "in-love" stage, kind of like an obsession. This stage is very nice when its happening but eventually it goes away. It's only natural to lose that "exciting feeling....
by 09lkv
Tue Aug 11, 2009 9:50 am
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: obsessive thinking and relationships. WHAT A WONDERFUL COMBINATION!
Replies: 28
Views: 12273

I know exactly what you mean when you say you feel "numb." I've been there. It's definitely not a fun place to be. I felt like life would never be fun anymore, but I got out of it and I know you can too. As far as relationships go, just remember that there are no rules as to how things "have to be."...
by 09lkv
Tue Aug 11, 2009 3:33 am
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: obsessive thinking and relationships. WHAT A WONDERFUL COMBINATION!
Replies: 28
Views: 12273

Hey there. I read your post and it sounds all too familiar to me. I have struggled and sometimes still do with the anxiety about relationships. But first off I want to let you know that you are not alone! That in itself can give some peace of mind. I know it did me. Anyhow, the codependency thing so...
by 09lkv
Thu Jul 16, 2009 9:04 am
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: obsessive thinking and relationships. WHAT A WONDERFUL COMBINATION!
Replies: 28
Views: 12273

Actually while I'm on here, I'd really like to share my situation with anyone who will listen. I know this may be irrelevent to some, but it was really make me feel better to get my whole story out to someone, anyone. Ok, I didn't start dating till I was 17. My first two relationships were flings/fl...
by 09lkv
Thu Jul 16, 2009 8:28 am
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: obsessive thinking and relationships. WHAT A WONDERFUL COMBINATION!
Replies: 28
Views: 12273

Wow thanks for responding all. This sounds kind of silly, but this page right here has helped me so much. It's helped me so much in the way that I now know that I'm not alone and that there is hope at the other end. I hope to keep in touch with all of you for support as I (and others) go through thi...
by 09lkv
Mon Jun 22, 2009 11:38 am
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: obsessive thinking and relationships. WHAT A WONDERFUL COMBINATION!
Replies: 28
Views: 12273

Hey I'm pretty much echoing what tghe person before me said. I need help, or at the very least somebody to talk to who knows what it's like. Please respond, please