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by ab1982
Wed May 11, 2011 1:51 pm
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: I want to die
Replies: 18
Views: 10888

Re: I want to die

tbabystroup, thank you! That was such a beautiful and inspirational post. I'm in a slump right now, but I feel much better. I keep believing that I'll be able to do this, to get through. i'm having a hard time getting motivated though.
by ab1982
Sat Apr 09, 2011 12:29 am
Forum: Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
Topic: Dermatillomania
Replies: 1
Views: 3013

Dermatillomania

I don't have it all the time, it kinda flares up when I'm extremely stressed. And have no power over it. I try to stop myself, but the need to pick at my poor skin is very strong. My back looks like i have some horrible disease, covered with scabs. :( I cut my nails really short, but it doesn't stop...
by ab1982
Mon Apr 04, 2011 12:29 pm
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: A very shameful problem. Please help.
Replies: 12
Views: 8116

Re: A very shameful problem. Please help.

Paisleegreen, to be honest, I don't know what came first. It's been so long. It's all in the mindset. I think I'm allowing myself to be lazy, because I'm not very responsible. I'd assume that people who have the urgency to get something done wouldn't even have a thought about putting it off. And it ...
by ab1982
Sun Apr 03, 2011 10:26 pm
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: A very shameful problem. Please help.
Replies: 12
Views: 8116

A very shameful problem. Please help.

This isn't easy for me, because this kind of problem is very hard to admit. People who have this character trait are usually very ashamed of themselves. So am I. I'm very lazy . It is my main problem in life and I believe that it's been causing me to be depressed all these years. And it makes me anx...
by ab1982
Sat Apr 02, 2011 4:33 pm
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: Stuck in the past. please help.
Replies: 2
Views: 1813

Stuck in the past. please help.

I had a great childhood! Nothing to complain about! Plenty of good friends, family trips to Black Sea, working in the garden with grandma, interesting and fun. I am 28 now. And my mind keeps going back to the times I was happy and secure. I can't escape all the negative feelings I have about being a...
by ab1982
Sat Apr 02, 2011 4:21 pm
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: bruxism and tmj
Replies: 2
Views: 2020

Re: bruxism and tmj

it can definitely cause headaches! I have this problem too. i wouldn't say i feel fuzzy, but i do have headaches all the time. you need to try a mouth guard.
by ab1982
Mon Mar 28, 2011 9:48 am
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: Sleep addiction
Replies: 3
Views: 2316

Re: Sleep addiction

Finally! Someone who understands! Lets fight it together and share our progress!!! :)
by ab1982
Sat Mar 26, 2011 11:14 am
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: Family and anxiety/depression
Replies: 1
Views: 1511

Re: Family and anxiety/depression

The fear of doing it on your own is holding you back. It';s your fear. So, remember what Lucinda said - be scared and do it anyway, cuz this is the only way out. You will not get better living in the same situation you're living now. Look for a roommate, ask your friends if they know of someone who ...
by ab1982
Sat Mar 26, 2011 11:06 am
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: My story first time Im telling anyone the whole truth...
Replies: 7
Views: 3653

Re: My story first time Im telling anyone the whole truth...

Checking your pulse has become a compulsion for you. It's going to be very hard to break it, but you have to at least try. When you get up tell yourself "I'm ok. I don't need to check my pulse. Checking it will no change anything." It'll be hard at first. But keep on it. The other thing - natural re...
by ab1982
Sat Mar 26, 2011 10:49 am
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: cant tell if im spacey still from depression or lack of slee
Replies: 2
Views: 1984

Re: cant tell if im spacey still from depression or lack of

I was wondering. what if you slept with a sound machine or put a cd with a soothing music on. that'd distract you from ringing in your ears. and maybe you can get some peaceful sleep. sometimes when I have racing thoughts and can't relax i fall asleep to my fave music. Try it. And sleeping pills wou...