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by Gerri Ahart
Wed Aug 22, 2012 12:41 pm
Forum: Depression
Topic: need someone to talk to!
Replies: 4
Views: 6081

Re: need someone to talk to!

Good Morning-
You have a very similar story to mine, but I have been married for 16 years. My husband is mean and hurtful and is suffering from his own issues that he doesn't want to face. I have had this program for 2 years now and I loaded it on my ipod. It is my go to reminder to live my life. I ...
by Gerri Ahart
Mon Dec 20, 2010 4:46 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: January 1, 2010 - 3 good things
Replies: 532
Views: 219781

my husband has been home for 6 days from rehab and we are making it

i rocked it at the gym today

i went to alanon meeting and shared
by Gerri Ahart
Mon Dec 20, 2010 4:44 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Does anyone ever have little bad things that keep happening over and over again???
Replies: 6
Views: 3069

when i first started this program my husband and i were in a bad place. he is an alsoholic and we had been living this life for quite sometime. it seemed as soon as i would learn something in the tapes or be insightful about my own behavior- something would happen so I could try out my new found ...
by Gerri Ahart
Wed Nov 10, 2010 3:12 am
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Collecting insults, rude and cruel remarks.
Replies: 25
Views: 10624

Mike-
You are correct. I guess instances like when those insults are thrown are perfect opportunities to practice what I have learned. Which is tons. I wouldn't have been able to make the changes had I not found this program. I am learning that I could be a 6 foot 3 blonde model with huge breasts ...
by Gerri Ahart
Mon Nov 08, 2010 4:40 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: January 1, 2010 - 3 good things
Replies: 532
Views: 219781

monday

1) for my mother in law who is trying despite the fact our entire family is at odds
2) Rachel- who lets me drop F bombs to make me feel beter
3) My eye rx did not change at my exam- guess turning 40 had no effect on the peepers yet
by Gerri Ahart
Mon Nov 08, 2010 4:30 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Collecting insults, rude and cruel remarks.
Replies: 25
Views: 10624

If you are still looking for insults here you go...

You suck as a wife
You need to go and have someone teach you how to be a better wife
I don't take you to functions because I am embarrassed to be seen with you
You are selfish
You are lazy
You are simple minded
You were raised in the Ranchos
You ...
by Gerri Ahart
Thu Oct 14, 2010 5:36 pm
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: Anyone want to be my partner?
Replies: 5
Views: 3423

i do session 3 about every other day. i have to keep putting that cd in over and over. i have to be constantly reminded. i write post its - on my mirror in the bathroom with dry erase- as soon as a thought starts i squash it. it is a new behavior for me but this session has made a huge difference in ...
by Gerri Ahart
Thu Oct 14, 2010 5:24 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: January 1, 2010 - 3 good things
Replies: 532
Views: 219781

shif - i like your line too- i added that on my email signature and am reminded all day :)

3 things for today(which has been hard)

1- after a conflict with my husband- i didn't meltdown- walked away and did self talk-no panic attack- WOW- it worked!
2-modern family- that show cracked me up today ...
by Gerri Ahart
Fri Oct 08, 2010 1:22 pm
Forum: Depression
Topic: Lonely
Replies: 35
Views: 22028

I am sorry that you are sad- just gonna post because i am too. im lonely too but in a house full of people. i am a stranger to my husband who basically loathes me- and i have been trying to keep myself together for the four kids that we have. they are the reason that i live alothough i know that if ...
by Gerri Ahart
Mon Aug 16, 2010 3:18 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: January 1, 2010 - 3 good things
Replies: 532
Views: 219781

This is very hard as I had a rough day today and had a full blown anxiety attack- 1st one since starting the program and off of my meds
so here it goes:
1-my son makes a point to kiss me hello-goodbye-whenever-even if he's just leaving for football practice (he is 13)
2-I got a haircut that I wasn't ...