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by Bill Sheldon
Thu Feb 03, 2011 9:59 pm
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: Asperger's and anxiety
Replies: 4
Views: 2265

Re: Asperger's and anxiety

Rob, It was interesting to read your post, as my 9 year old son has Asperger's. I really think it may be as simple as accepting that you have no control over how others will perceive you. While you have a challenge the rest of us don't, we all need to learn to care a whole lot less about how we're p...
by Bill Sheldon
Thu Feb 03, 2011 9:48 pm
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: Having trouble working session 4
Replies: 5
Views: 3942

Re: Having trouble working session 4

I agree. I also think that some sessions will speak to you more than others. While I have had almost continuous anxiety for years, it has rarely if ever reached the level of "panic attack". Therefore, I didn't find Session 2 to be overly helpful. On the other hand, 3 and 4 really speak to me. I can ...
by Bill Sheldon
Thu Feb 03, 2011 9:46 pm
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: Examining our Expectations
Replies: 2
Views: 1273

Re: Examining our Expectations

I would consider the support group incident to be a case of "life isn't fair" more than an expectation. Anyway, I do think that being independent, having your own place, and living a normal life are not unreasonable expectations, but consider that the first and third are subjective. What exactly doe...
by Bill Sheldon
Tue Jan 25, 2011 9:51 pm
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: Who wants to hear something weird?
Replies: 7
Views: 2927

Re: Who wants to hear something weird?

I am absolutely convinced that we negative thinkers are prone to being negative dreamers. My dreams are almost all negative - failing a class, screwing up a work project, being late for something, embarrassing myself, etc. They usually disrupt my sleep, which is how I know I'm having them. My wife s...