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by newrunner
Mon Aug 29, 2011 10:37 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Sunday nights!
Replies: 6
Views: 2959

Re: Sunday nights!

I used to do that all the time. I even had a name for it. My husband and I always have to remind ourselves to live the now and not extrapolate and try to everything for the week in the next 10 minutes. Maybe you can make up a weekly schedule and put very specific tasks on certain days so that you ca...
by newrunner
Mon Aug 29, 2011 10:33 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Assertiveness woes
Replies: 10
Views: 5056

Re: Assertiveness woes

I am interested in your posting, because I had an experience recently with my dad that reminded me of your situation. Mine is not so all encompassing, but still. The "my way or the highway" and temper tantrums or silent treatment and thinking he can run me over when I am an adult and give him no rea...
by newrunner
Mon Aug 01, 2011 7:26 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: THIS IS IT!
Replies: 1
Views: 1375

Re: THIS IS IT!

This is all 100% correct. How are you today?
by newrunner
Mon Aug 01, 2011 7:24 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Wish Me Luck...Please :)
Replies: 5
Views: 2690

Re: Wish Me Luck...Please :)

I wish you luck for sure. You sure have a lot of changes happening in your life. As I read your post, a couple of things struck me. First, you aren't alone in the town, because your dad is there. And second, I totally relate to not wanting to pack, etc. When I get stressed, I procrastinate. And deep...
by newrunner
Fri Jul 29, 2011 3:23 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: help from those married with kids please
Replies: 5
Views: 2738

Re: help from those married with kids please

Hi, I am a SAHM with 4 boys, all born within 5 years and 1 week. My husband doesn't coach, but he does have a job that keeps him there about 10-12 hrs. a day and sometimes travel. I agree that getting mad and alienating him is not the right path. I've tried that myself. What does help me is to take ...
by newrunner
Thu Jul 14, 2011 6:19 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Children & anxiety
Replies: 1
Views: 1386

Re: Children & anxiety

Hello- There is a doctor who wrote a book about this whole thing, called "Freedom from Fear" by Dr. Howard Leibgold. His website is www.angelnet.com . I believe they have stuff for kids and adults. I was referred to this book by a lady who used to post on this site. She actually lives in CA and gets...
by newrunner
Fri Jul 08, 2011 7:02 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Sadly, I'm back and struggling bad again...
Replies: 16
Views: 8351

Re: Sadly, I'm back and struggling bad again...

Hi Silver Lining- I'm sorry that you are having a hard time. I am also a female going thru perimenopause and in fact, just got home from talking to my compounding pharmacist about my hormonal shifts, etc. and what are we going to do about this. What I am saying is..... many of the things you are tal...
by newrunner
Fri Jul 08, 2011 6:54 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Feelings - Letting it all out
Replies: 6
Views: 2544

Re: Feelings - Letting it all out

Oh yea, you'll get better. You'll learn that what you are fearing is the squirt of adrenaline and then surge of feelings that follow. Then you'll learn how you can de-stress your life by changing your diet, your self talk, your exercise or lack of it, learning to stand up for yourself and learning h...
by newrunner
Thu Jul 07, 2011 3:53 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Feelings - Letting it all out
Replies: 6
Views: 2544

Re: Feelings - Letting it all out

Hi Nick- You sound like a very mature young man who is having a hard time. As I read your post, it reminded me of myself a bit. I also had a hard time separating from my folks who I thought of as my safe people, except that I was not honest with them about how I felt. I kept it inside. I'm glad for ...
by newrunner
Wed Jul 06, 2011 9:19 am
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: I've yet to find anything that will work for me...
Replies: 7
Views: 3008

Re: I've yet to find anything that will work for me...

Yahoo!!!! I'm about 98% positive that I am the person who posted about Dr. Leibgold's book on here, because it worked for me too!! And I heard about it from a lady who used to post on here too. Her name is Boon, on this site. She lives in CA, and gets to go to support groups run by Dr. Leibgold and ...