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by pecos
Mon Feb 02, 2009 10:03 am
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Peace never comes
Replies: 3
Views: 1053

We all end up here because of suffering. Some more so than others, but suffering none the less. When I started the program last summer I did not expect I’d be forever relieved from pain as that would be unrealistic. When I did complete the program last autumn my first few weeks out included several ...
by pecos
Sun Feb 01, 2009 2:46 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: mom controlled by sister
Replies: 13
Views: 4518

The advice already provided here is so excellent, I won't even try to offer more. I agree with all. You cannot make a person love you. Sometimes we want that love so desperately we are willing to grovel away so much time begging for it. Your story is heartbreaking. I hope you understand your advice ...
by pecos
Thu Jan 29, 2009 2:02 pm
Forum: Session 9 - Get Off the Guilt & Worry Treadmill
Topic: Really need some help with putting guilt into perspective
Replies: 6
Views: 2581

First of all, your husband is correct, you are doing a great job by trying! It looks like a couple of things are going on, and you have skills from this program to handle them! That’s the good news. The difficult thing is that your feelings are many, and all of them are uncomfortable. You don’t have...
by pecos
Fri Jan 23, 2009 6:43 am
Forum: Depression
Topic: Support circle for depression
Replies: 624
Views: 161957

Jamieleeg, have you called StressCenter.com to ask them about the program on blackberry? Jbasch, this is the best place to overcome loneliness, working here with this community. Calmseeker, like you, I felt relief right away, too. K.Denise C, so nice to see you here. Pinkeetoz, I believe you are on ...
by pecos
Fri Jan 23, 2009 6:16 am
Forum: Depression
Topic: Support circle for depression
Replies: 624
Views: 161957

Greetings Tadpole and Bobby Leigh. So happy you are both here. I seldom visit the online community these days, so please don’t feel like I’m ignoring this Depression Circle if you don’t hear from me for awhile. To both of you, I would first recommend you see an OBGYN and have your estrogen, progeste...
by pecos
Wed Jan 21, 2009 5:55 am
Forum: Depression
Topic: Support circle for depression
Replies: 624
Views: 161957

Greetings to all. Depression is simply a fast track to a ruined life. Those who are here working through this program are on a new track. I’ve been down this new track and if you stay with it, you will overcome your depression. The journey is not easy. It is not quick. To tell you the truth, stickin...
by pecos
Tue Jan 20, 2009 1:33 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Suicidal Thoughts
Replies: 45
Views: 11592

They don't plan it for weeks. Or do they? People who really are considering suicide really do think long and hard about it. In fact, many do plan it for weeks. This is alot different than the "fear of suicide" that this post is discussing. It's important to differentiate between the two. With depre...
by pecos
Tue Jan 13, 2009 8:28 am
Forum: Depression
Topic: Support circle for depression
Replies: 624
Views: 161957

So wonderful to see so many people helping and supporting each other here on the Support Circle. I hope to continue watching each of you progress all the way through your programs. Don't give up. The end result is worth all the hard work. Debchance, I felt quite sad reading your last post. Let me sh...
by pecos
Tue Jan 13, 2009 8:17 am
Forum: Depression
Topic: Why is it so hard to talk to people?
Replies: 27
Views: 7389

Talking is one of many forms of communication. Talking is quite simple if you suspend your internal rehearsing of what the other person is thinking. Talk has two components. The outflow of words and the inflow of words. The second part of talking is listening. Most people thoroughly enjoy talking wi...
by pecos
Sun Jan 04, 2009 12:57 pm
Forum: Depression
Topic: Support circle for depression
Replies: 624
Views: 161957

Hi All. Debchance, thanks so much for the kind mentions. Always is nice to know when we have helped. You are quite an inspiration to so many here as well. I do hope all the new members stay with their sessions and homework. The same-old-same-old only gets us the same old results and the same old rea...