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by Rachel81
Sat Sep 06, 2008 2:10 am
Forum: Session 6 - Stop Being Angry and Control Your Mood Swings
Topic: Obsessive Anger
Replies: 13
Views: 6027

Great advice about clearing high emotions. They can definitely destroy a person. I have always been a very emotinal person. As i got older (as I've said in other posts) I thought of it as being compassionate or empathizing with others (putting myself in their shoes, as you said mike). It seems so cr...
by Rachel81
Sat Sep 06, 2008 1:15 am
Forum: Depression
Topic: Lonely Heart Syndrome
Replies: 25
Views: 9470

Thank you :D
Good point about not having the stress of a bad relationship!
Hopefully you know how appreciative I am. It is early, and my mornings can be tough. Bad dreams....I wish there was a way to remedy that!
I hope you all have a great day! And thank you, again.
by Rachel81
Fri Sep 05, 2008 11:07 am
Forum: Depression
Topic: Lonely Heart Syndrome
Replies: 25
Views: 9470

I do definitely need to work on the internal approval, rather than relying on external. Not playing the blame game. But I grew up in an incredibly ciritical household...I guess this is something I have just held onto....that approval. And, I could even go so far as to say that it is strongly with ma...
by Rachel81
Fri Sep 05, 2008 11:01 am
Forum: Depression
Topic: Lonely Heart Syndrome
Replies: 25
Views: 9470

That's actually what got me here currently! :) I thank you for the advice. And I do have to tell you, that I cringed a little...just being honest. It was a challenge for me to read and not feel defensive. So I kept in mind that it is with good intentions....and you may be right. I feel like I do kno...
by Rachel81
Fri Sep 05, 2008 9:51 am
Forum: Depression
Topic: Lonely Heart Syndrome
Replies: 25
Views: 9470

Thank you so much for your kind words. I am 27 and have never been married. I really am quite an independent woman, but when it comes to my heart...I guess that's an area where I've always struggled. I know that I shouldn't need anyone else to make me feel vaidated. I really do....but I guess I just...
by Rachel81
Fri Sep 05, 2008 6:25 am
Forum: Depression
Topic: Lonely Heart Syndrome
Replies: 25
Views: 9470

I didn't know what to call the discussion. I am not even sure how to begin. Things were going okay, one might even say very good. And CRASH! into a million little pieces... I don't know where or how to begin. But any help would be appreciated. I started session 4 today...although I didn't really wan...
by Rachel81
Sat Aug 30, 2008 2:06 am
Forum: Depression
Topic: I miss my creativity/decisiveness!!
Replies: 3
Views: 1293

I sure can. I am a visual artist, and a teacher. I also grinned really big when I heard the personality traits....sooooo me! It is hard I think, b/c we have always been taught to look deeper. That a rose is not just a rose...a gesture or movement is not just a movement...dig deeper for the meaning a...
by Rachel81
Fri Aug 22, 2008 11:44 am
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: I reached out to an ex...
Replies: 37
Views: 9512

Wiksers- what a nice post. I can kinda relate to pujols. However I can't say that I have the great feeling of having anyone want to spend their life with me. Hence it being hard where I'm at in the program (a newbie) to fight the blues (dk. blue...matbe prussian blue :)) I have dealt with these feel...