Posted: Fri Dec 12, 2008 5:01 pm
brandie
Like MC Grace said...don't be too hard on yourself. It takes awhile to get lesson 3. The thought replacement takes time to become believeable and that's just fine. I mean you are changing your habits around and your ego is trying to protect you and keep you in your safe zone which right now is negative thinking. Think of it this way...how many attempts does a baby take when it learns to walk? does the baby do it perfectly the first time around? We're all like babies in this sense...we cannot do things perfectly in the beginning and thats ok...as long as we keep trying we will get to where we want to go and we open ourselves up to so many more options when we do master this....just like a baby opens it's life to many new options like running, dancing, jogging...etc.
If you're having a hard time replacing a negative thought, you are more than welcome to make a new thread and show us your attempt at replacing the negative thought and get some advice from the people on this website.
One more question for you brandie...You said you didn't know what to write in your journal. If you knew the answer to this question then what would you do?
Mike
Like MC Grace said...don't be too hard on yourself. It takes awhile to get lesson 3. The thought replacement takes time to become believeable and that's just fine. I mean you are changing your habits around and your ego is trying to protect you and keep you in your safe zone which right now is negative thinking. Think of it this way...how many attempts does a baby take when it learns to walk? does the baby do it perfectly the first time around? We're all like babies in this sense...we cannot do things perfectly in the beginning and thats ok...as long as we keep trying we will get to where we want to go and we open ourselves up to so many more options when we do master this....just like a baby opens it's life to many new options like running, dancing, jogging...etc.
If you're having a hard time replacing a negative thought, you are more than welcome to make a new thread and show us your attempt at replacing the negative thought and get some advice from the people on this website.
One more question for you brandie...You said you didn't know what to write in your journal. If you knew the answer to this question then what would you do?
Mike