Unable to achieve anything?

dj417002 · Post by **dj417002** » Tue Jun 16, 2009 5:28 am

Don't know if this is directly related to Anxiety, It may be. Anything I do, I get more excitement out of the actual thought rather than the actual doing. Few examples so you know what I'm talking about, when I left school I went to college,stayed a month and left, I used to DJ, I never got anywhere for yonks, once I started getting somewhere I lost interest and gave up. Or in Septemeber past I started Uni, I left by Jan, I get excitied about doing things then when It comes down to it I self sabotage, IE I have self talk "well may be things aren't so bad at the min" and give up. The only thing I have achieved in my life is going through this program, and while it has helped me a hell of alot my life still is $hit.

Anyone else like this.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Thu Jun 18, 2009 7:30 pm

I'm not exactly like that, but I do give up on things fairly easily if I don't feel very successful. I attribute my issues like that to a low self-esteem and being a perfectionist. I'm hoping the program helps me do better at both.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Fri Jun 19, 2009 2:05 am

I can relate to that. I do a lot of planning and not enough doing. Maybe this program will help me, I've only just started.