Why do I always feel so low after an event?

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Post by dj417002 » Sat Jul 25, 2009 7:01 am

What I mean by an event is say a Wedding, Family Function etc. I had a wedding yesterday, I had antispatory anxiety for months just at the thought of it, I was a best man, Last week was a torture, I was killed with anxiety. They we had the event yesterday and I had a really enjoyable day, today however now that its all over I feel so sad, almost like I could cry, Its like there is a price to pay for having such a good time.

The wedding was just one example, Last year we went on vacation, same thing happened, I came home and was almost in tears.

Its almost like I'd be better not doing anything out of the normal that is going to involve having fun as I will feel so depressed after.

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Post by Guest » Sat Jul 25, 2009 8:50 am

I believe that the huge adrenaline release is exhausting.

Maybe, plan to do something just for you that you look forward to after the big event.

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Post by Guest » Sat Jul 25, 2009 10:21 am

hi dj its nice to see someone else from the uk.. i think what could happen is often after a high becomes a low.. you have been worked up for months then the event and then your body winds down a little.. this is what happens to me so i know that the depression stage wont last for long. are you on the programme. i feel this is the only thing that helps me because the uk does not deal with anxiety or depression very well so i had to go to the u.s for help!!

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Post by Guest » Sun Jul 26, 2009 3:40 am

This may help research it and it sounds like long term anticipatory anxiety !Long term release of Cortisol !!!!!!!!!!

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