Having a hard time after break up

P&P · Post by **P&P** » Wed Jul 22, 2009 4:20 pm

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Guest · Post by **Guest** » Wed Jul 22, 2009 7:33 pm

I'm sorry to hear about your breakup. I recently broke up with my girlfriend and she too did a lot for me, comforted me, and stood with me through so much. Sometimes love just isn't enough though. As someone who has gone through this several times though, I can tell you that it DOES get better and you will meet someone else. It just seems like you won't right now. I too am struggling with my break up and have those doubts about whether I'll meet anyone as good again, but deep down I know I just have to give it time and work on myself. I truly feel for ya and I know those tears all too well. Keep your head up and try to keep busy. Love will come knockin again when you least expect it. Now it's just time to work on you and loving yourself so the next relationship can be even stronger and deeper. I know everything I've said sounds so cliche, but it's the truth I swear. Keep in touch if you need to talk to someone, god knows we all need to let it out sometimes. Private message me if you want. Take care

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sat Jul 25, 2009 3:22 am

I feel your pain. My boyfriend and I both have anxiety, and it's putting a wedge between us and I'm thinking we are probably going to have to break up at some point. I just don't see a way to make it work anymore, and I am very scared of how empty my life will be if we break up. I am too clouded by my anxiety issues right now to see if he is the right guy for me or not, and though there are times I want to break up with him, I wonder if it is just the anxiety talking. I don't know what to do.

anyway, I'm sorry for your breakup - it is true, you do find someone else. I've had enough breakups in my life to know this. It will take a little time but you'll be able to heal from it and find someone else even though you might not want to think of that right now. Take some time to feel what you're feeling.