I'm Sick of This Crap...I've had ENOUGH!!!

NinjaFrodo · Post by **NinjaFrodo** » Sun Jul 11, 2010 3:20 pm

Thank you THH and you are right Lords Servant could benefit greatly by looking at the positives of the situation you are in now. It might be hard but there are many there and also do you really think that God wants to make you miserable? Things will get better

Mike

THE LORDS SERVANT · Post by **THE LORDS SERVANT** » Fri Aug 13, 2010 2:31 pm

lol you guys are right i will try to see the best of the situation!!!! i'm going to do my best to get my life back in order and live a peaceful non dependent life and only be dependent on myself and GOD that way i cant be let doen!!!You guys are awesome!!!

lately the break has been kind of pointless because it has been like we are still in our regular relationship doing the same exact things and lately i've been feeling as if she's too busy and doesnt have much time for me! i know i'm being very negative and i'm using my negative thinking instead of my positive thinking i need her to tell me i love you and i miss you and she hasn't been and that makes me feel she doesn't love me as much anymore but i know by me being this needy needy person is a big turn off and might just turn her away from me! 2 days ago we met up and i brought up this break and the nun thing and we recently agreed that the break we were supposed to be on didnt go the way it should of sooo she said i was right and that she does need to take this break to really make a decision i told her lets take 2 months she looked at me kind of funny but didnt say much and she said we cant talk or see each other anymore but she did it this time and i felt like i had zero control and i felt like it was very easy for her and that she doesnt want me anymore. I dont want her to feel pressured and think i'm this needy whimp soo i'm going to talk to her this week and tell her look i dont want you to feel pressured so lets take the time off this break and just take the time you feel you need to make a decision and i'll stay faithful to you but just do me one favor please if your status changes and you decide you want to see other people just tell me so i can see other people as well! That way she doesnt think i'm all dependent on her and she'll say hey if i want him i gotta go get him!!!
What to you guys think??

tardy · Post by **tardy** » Wed Oct 13, 2010 5:16 am

you guys are so inspiring. i woke up this morning, saying i am sick of this crap too!! still waiting for my program to arrive. should be here friday....

NinjaFrodo · Post by **NinjaFrodo** » Thu Oct 14, 2010 5:37 am

Yay! I'm glad we were inspiring. I'm sure you will get many great things from the program. I know I did.

Mike

darlafred · Post by **darlafred** » Wed Nov 10, 2010 3:53 am

What I can say is after losing three sister's a brother and mother and father to cancer/diabets.
Your girlfriend is in mourning. During this time she may say a lot of off the wall things. Back in the day, when I first lost my mother, I read Ron hubbard's book...There was not alot out there at the time. She is greiving and I believe she will come back to you, just don't push her, I would believe her heart is broken and she doesn't have that love to give you right now. Just wait it out, and let her know you are there for her. I know it hurts, but she is hurting too. I have soooooooooooo been there.
Darlene
Hope this helps

Originally posted by NinjaFrodo:
Yay! I'm glad we were inspiring. I'm sure you will get many great things from the program. I know I did.

Mike

Paisleegreen · Post by **Paisleegreen** » Wed Nov 10, 2010 5:33 am

I agree with Darlafred, I've lost a son, 2 sister in laws to cancer, a mother in law to leukemia, my mother to strokes, and a niece to a blood disorder. There's more...but you're lucky that your GF still wants to live and be productive.

So this separation is a good thing for you to develop yourself and be a better and informed person with more knowledge about what happens when you lose a loved one so you can understand your GF. Good luck.