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Loveslife
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Re: Dear Diary

Post by Loveslife » Fri Nov 11, 2011 6:06 pm

I believe you and I believe your daughter.
I don't believe him.
((((((HUGS)))))))

tina martin
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Re: Dear Diary

Post by tina martin » Fri Nov 11, 2011 7:41 pm

Am so sorry for all you report, Bunny. This must be unbelievably distressing for your daughter and you. In addition, you are up against a formidable foe who is hardly likely to own up to anything and may be able to deceive a community.

You may want to consult a lawyer to guide you in how to proceed. Wishing you and your daughter strength and determination to get justice and start anew. Best to both of you.

SoWhatif
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Re: Dear Diary

Post by SoWhatif » Thu Nov 17, 2011 9:01 am

J, Hows the new occupation going? exciting I hope.
Just checking on ya.

R

Loveslife
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Re: Dear Diary

Post by Loveslife » Thu Nov 17, 2011 1:27 pm

Hi All,
More updates later. I literally cannot move, I am so tired. This is the hardest job (and most fun) I have ever had.
Oh my aching back.
XOXOXOXOXOX
Love,
J.

Paisleegreen
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Re: Dear Diary

Post by Paisleegreen » Sat Nov 19, 2011 4:58 pm

I have some reading to catch up on, but wanted to post to Bunny to let you know that I'm sorry for all the problems your daughter is going through as well as you. What a horrible experience for you and your daughter. I hope things get better and your daughter is able to heal.

Congratulations on your new job, J! Yippee!
Paislee been away so long, I forgot my password. But it came back to me... ;)

bunny rabbit
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Re: Dear Diary

Post by bunny rabbit » Sun Nov 27, 2011 5:49 pm

Hi Everyone: I've been under meltdown. I can hardly breathe. I'm crying, screaming, raging. I even took a baseball bat to my sil's picture. He has uttered death threats. My daughter fears for her safety. I saw her yesterday. She is running on fumes on adrenalin, talking so fast, going a mile a minute, then she took her meds and crashed at my mothers' house while we all sat at the dinner table. More and more ugly truth is being brought to light about this man. It is so upsetting. I want to help her but I can't rescue her and bail her out financially. She has to face the consequences of her choices to spend every cent she had trying to please this abuser, working 4 jobs, up till 2 am. because she was afraid to sleep due to the nightmares, showering at work because he would rape her in the shower. Oh please God help me and help her. Please Father keep her safe...........Bunny

SoWhatif
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Re: Dear Diary

Post by SoWhatif » Tue Dec 06, 2011 8:38 am

Hey J, Are you working yourself to death? You been awfully quiet. Are you ready for the holidays?


Bunny, you are milder than I think I would be, the bat is a good attitude adjuster for sure.


I want to go riding, seems all the folks are getting to fat or to lazy to go. Really is depressing......... :roll:

R

SoWhatif
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Re: Dear Diary

Post by SoWhatif » Wed Dec 07, 2011 11:28 pm

This place is spooky quiet. The lights are on, they must be out back haveing a winter fest dodgeing raindrops.

Don't forget to check the air in the tires.

Loveslife
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Re: Dear Diary

Post by Loveslife » Thu Dec 08, 2011 7:50 am

Hi R. and others too!!

R., I have been so sick with a bad case of the flu, and also working very hard before and after my illness.

Today I am working from 2pm - 10pm, and tomorrow I will be back at 8:30am, because "corporate" is coming in, and my manager wants me there for the experience, whatever that means.

It's fun, but truly the hardest job I've ever had. I'm only allowed to sit for a 30 minute break out of an 8 or 9 hour shift, so I come home hobbling.

But, I am great at selling fancy, shiny, expensive appliances, and I also prepare the food in the morning, when I have a morning shift. I also give food demonstrations, etc.

I'm busy finishing Dr. K's new book, and should finish it today, before work. I must say that his insight is fascinating.

Nothing else has changed. Oh, how I suppress. That is not true. J., is now engaged with a ring and everything. I'm doing my best to not say the wrong thing, as she is only 21. I am encouraging her to have a long, long engagement and to also move in with him in February, when her friend will take over her lease, etc.

He has a darling 2 year old with the exact same name as my daughter, but, my daughter is too young, so I am just navigating this as best I can.

I've asked my DH to be in charge of the bankruptcy lawyer while I'm at work, but that doesn't seem to be moving along, so I will ask him to call again today.

I hope you are well. Yes, we had incredible rain here last night and for the past few days, but the temperature has fallen so I expect the next weather situation will be snow.

My tires are fine.

I do miss you and Tina and Paislee and all.

How was your Thanksgiving? How are YOU?

XO
Love,
J.

Loveslife
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Re: Dear Diary

Post by Loveslife » Thu Dec 08, 2011 9:28 am

PS
Oh Lord. My daughter's future stepdaughter will have the exact same name as my daughter. And, it is an unusual name. And they have the same spelling. AND her "fiancé" has the name tattoed (SP) on his arm.
CMA CMA CMA. UGH!!!

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