Don't give up. Sometimes it takes people a little time to adjust to the idea of being married, and we don't always adjust at the same time, so be patient. She's the same woman as before the marriage. Give it some time.
Yeah, you're right deedee. Things are getting better. Nothing more than an adjustment for both of us, it seems. We had a long talk and got everything worked out. Huge adjustment after being single 17 years, lol.