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ksl hopeless romantic · Post by **ksl hopeless romantic** » Wed Mar 03, 2010 3:46 am

Funny!! Beleive me when I say I am doing better. I think my soon to be EX's signals is what caused my issues but now that I have accepted whats going on I feel like a million bucks Now!!!
Boy today the EX showed her butt right in front of the kids cause she could not find a coffee mug. She emptied the entire cabinet on the floor to find a mug. My daughter was so P#@!ed and when the EX left boy did my daughter go off about her mother. I never said a word but i was grinning from ear to ear inside. The kids are starting to see how their mother really is and I know it hurts them but things will work out. Just wait till she gets served with the papers. Bet there will be some long posts then. Take care. I will keep all of you posted. MissGSR glad I know what your call sign means now. I was afraid you were gonna say it stood for Gun Shot Residue LOL just kidding.
Karl

ksl hopeless romantic · Post by **ksl hopeless romantic** » Wed Mar 03, 2010 2:43 pm

She constantly amazes me in her thinking. She comes home and while the kids are here she gets ready and goes out. Check this out shes 38 years old and has on a Hannah Montana Tshirt a pair of C$m@L Toe jeans and a weeks worth of perfume on and does this right in front of my kids. My 15 year old daughter looks at me after she leaves and says to me looks like she is going to go get laid. What do you say to that.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Wed Mar 03, 2010 4:35 pm

Hi ksl,

You cannot control the actions of others!!! You can only control how you "react" to these things!!!

I think you need to try your best to "under-react" to how she is acting, if that makes any sense

I can only "imagine" how this makes you feel, since it is "effecting" your daughter in such a "negative" manner!!!

If you are doing the program, then I think it would be very "useful" to teach her some of the "tools" which, you have learned in it!!!

I am "refreshing" myself on the program, since it has been around 7 years, and I am "picking" up on many things, which I had "totally" forgotten!!!

I was reading tonight about becoming "action-oriented" and these things are helping me tremendously!!!

I am soooo thankful to hear that things are going much better for you!!!

I think you are going to have to be the "role model" for your daughter!!! I know it is going to be very difficult, but you can do it...I know you can!!!

At least, she has a father who is there to take care of her and that is a very good thing

Life can be "very" painful, but we only go around this way once, so we need to try our very best to make the most of it!!!

I pray that you get a great night's rest!!!

May God richly bless you and your children KSL!!!!

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Wed Mar 03, 2010 4:39 pm

BTW: Continue keeping us updated!!! Venting is soooo healthy, and I am sure it is safe to say, that everyone here cares about you, your children, and the things you are going through!!!

ksl hopeless romantic · Post by **ksl hopeless romantic** » Thu Mar 04, 2010 2:09 pm

Well she must have played too hard lastnight . She was in bed by 7pm. Im gonna tell you guy's she will not have time for her children because of her busy lifestyle, i think they will cramp her style. I know this hurts the kids but daddy will be there to pick up the pieces and they know im there for them cause i love them babies more than life.

ksl hopeless romantic · Post by **ksl hopeless romantic** » Fri Mar 05, 2010 1:42 pm

Guess what happened today? Her mom calls me and asks me if i would put brakes on my EX's car. It was all I could do not to laugh. I asked her mom why would I do that she makes a ton of money and doesnt pay anything and wont leave the house. I told her mom that my EX made this decision so she better get use to it. SHE IS NO LONGER MY RESPONSIBALITY!!!!! she's yours. More as it happens. Im now gonna sit down with my kids and watch a movie.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Fri Mar 05, 2010 1:56 pm

Yep, she "should" have thought of that one, before she decided she wanted out...Tee Hee!!!

Don't blame you one bit!!! It is not so much fun when the "shoe is on the other foot"

Hang in there ksl!!! I am sure that you are a "great" father, and that you were an "excellent" husband, and that she is "already" beginning to "regret" her actions!!!

Have you even heard that song, "You never miss a "real good thing, or know what it means, until it is gone?"

I think that song "applies" to your situation!!!

I hope you and your children enjoy that movie!!!

Have a wonderful night's rest...God bless you ksl!!!

ksl hopeless romantic · Post by **ksl hopeless romantic** » Mon Mar 08, 2010 3:22 pm

Oh boy do I have some Juicy stuff to let you in on but i cant let you in on it right now. Boy your gonna love it though!!!!!!!!!
KSL Hopeless Romantic

ksl hopeless romantic · Post by **ksl hopeless romantic** » Tue Mar 09, 2010 3:15 pm

All I can say is the truth always surfaces. Thats all for now.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Tue Mar 09, 2010 6:08 pm

BTW: missgsr is really beautiful....don't you need a vacation to California?

can't dance...This is a "great idea"...Tee Hee!!!

ksl, I bet you are going to say that she had met someone on facebook and was talking over the computer with that dude all this time, without your knowledge, and now she is seeing him

Oh come on, don't keep us in "suspense"