Does anyone ever have little bad things that keep happening over and over again???

creamcheese · Post by **creamcheese** » Mon Dec 20, 2010 2:44 pm

Does anyone ever experience bad things happening no matter how hard you try to make it better.??? Whats that all about. Call it karma, bad vibes, bad luck, or just plain ill will, it seems that these bad things keep happening. small or big...there is no let up. Anyone experiencing this?

SoWhatif · Post by **SoWhatif** » Mon Dec 20, 2010 3:35 pm

What are you saying, that your walking bad luck?

I do not believe in it. We all have times when it seems everything is going wrong . Like the further you go the worse it gets. chalk it up to crap happens. If you caused it then maybe we need to talk.

Stop blameing yourself, It is not a valid excuse to stop the train, "your health and life" needs for your getting through to your destination.

I know you can I know you can, that is thinking that works.
A thought I use if I am in doubt, DONT. Give it more reasearch or another approach. After re-thinking it make a decision and do it.

Murphey's law is alive and well. The idea is not being his helper....

Tomorrow is anew day.

Tonight is a full moon with a total eclipes.
The last time it happened was in the 1600's.
Are you not glad that your not at fault and caused the moon to blackout?
I bet a witch or two went up in smoke over that one.....

Snowing here so I can't see it.

Paisleegreen · Post by **Paisleegreen** » Mon Dec 20, 2010 4:28 pm

Well, I see a full moon where I'm at!

Ah...Cream Cheese...you are just in a new place and its Christmas Time with memories gone by. The days are still short, 2 more to go. It will get better, keep posting, we care.

Paislee

Gerri Ahart · Post by **Gerri Ahart** » Mon Dec 20, 2010 4:44 pm

when i first started this program my husband and i were in a bad place. he is an alsoholic and we had been living this life for quite sometime. it seemed as soon as i would learn something in the tapes or be insightful about my own behavior- something would happen so I could try out my new found skills. so think of the little bad things as opportunity to try out your new skills. you can do it - you will be fine and you will amaze yourself when you look back at it.

Paisleegreen · Post by **Paisleegreen** » Mon Dec 20, 2010 5:55 pm

Gerri that's so true! I've been working on things w/ my hubby as well. We've had a good talk tonight that started out rough earlier this past weekend, but I worked on remaining calm and feeling the anxiety and it gradually would leave my body as I kept telling myself the things I've heard from Lucinda's CDs.

All her pep talks and examples are helping.

I was able to clear up some misunderstandings tonight. So that was helpful for him to know that I appreciate the things he does for me. I just worry about the future.

Pauly J · Post by **Pauly J** » Mon Dec 20, 2010 6:48 pm

Hey Creamcheese, I understand what your talking about, I was the same way, and still am alot of times. What we need to do is stop focusing on the bad stuff and start looking for the good stuff in life! I bet if you try you will find many! Focus on what you want, what makes you feel good, and good old Appreciation for everything that you DO have! Hope it helps some!