First Night on my own!!!

Mistybloo2 · Post by **Mistybloo2** » Tue Jan 29, 2008 1:22 pm

Good Evening All,

For those of you who have read my post regarding wanting to leave my fiance... Well I did make the decision to just do it after contemplating it for months. I had a plan together as far as friends and family, my own bank account established and now my own place.

And today was my first day here. I thought I would be a wreck today just with anticipation of being alone from this point on. But I feel GREAT. One day out of my environment and I had significatly less stress and anxiety.

I made a decision to take care of ME. I went to my favorite store (Target) and bought some candles, bubble bath, comfy PJs and new fuzzy slippers! My bath water is filling up as I write and the candles are already lit

I am looking forward to a great night of pampering myself for once in my life and many more in the future

Misty

Mimigirl · Post by **Mimigirl** » Tue Jan 29, 2008 1:28 pm

Hi Misty,
That is so fantastic congrat's to you Misty what an inspiring story. I have been in a terrible marriage for 20 years and can only hope to become as strong as you one day and make the move for myself. Until then thank you for sharing with us your story. You must be so proud of yourself that is awesome. Well enjoy the time to yourself and your bubble bath and your new life that lies ahead of you. So glad to here your anxiety is better so wonderful.
God bless you on your new life
Mimi

Diggy · Post by **Diggy** » Tue Jan 29, 2008 1:54 pm

Congrats

Enjoy the time .... bubble baths always seem to do the trick. I am glad you made the decision. Best of luck in 2008!

butterfly9 · Post by **butterfly9** » Tue Jan 29, 2008 2:00 pm

I wish you the best life has to offer. It sounds like you have taken a positive first step to you well being and getting it all together.Oh,and I love going to Target too.

Take care!

ponds36 · Post by **ponds36** » Tue Jan 29, 2008 2:06 pm

Hi Misty!

I'm glad to hear about your decision, to LET GO of the relationhsip which is of no value emotion wise. It's so courageous of you to face the truth and the reality. You became addicted to the person which is not love anymore. Congratulations for using your own key to open the door which is in front of you. So enjoy yourself, keep up and MOVE ON!!!!