I come here to help others now, but sometimes I wonder if I really can help them.
Let's be positive folks! My positive story!
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Hi Karilynn. Good to see ya, and i'm glad to hear that you're better. I dont come here as much anymore either. I don't struggle with anxiety anymore, but I do come to try and give advice. I also agree that there's way too much enabling going on here. I have never been an enabler, so when I have tried to help some people, they couldn't handle the message unless it was "sugar-coated". So, now I look over the threads and try to only lend a hand to the people that I know I can advise without the thread turning into an arguement. Even on the threads about drugs and alcohol, they want you to say that what they're doing is okay. There was even a post where this guy was trying to get us to condone his wanting to cheat on his wife???????????
I come here to help others now, but sometimes I wonder if I really can help them.
I come here to help others now, but sometimes I wonder if I really can help them.
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DeeDee,
Keep posting, I love to read the posts here especially from those of you who have kicked this thing in the tail. It is so uplifting to hear that. I read alot of these posts and don't respond to many of them but it helps me to refocus myself just by reading them. I'm on week 10 now and plan on going through the program again so I can pick up those little things I missed the first time around. Keep posting it really does help. In fact, I look for certain people's posts because I know they will have something beneficial to say
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Keep posting, I love to read the posts here especially from those of you who have kicked this thing in the tail. It is so uplifting to hear that. I read alot of these posts and don't respond to many of them but it helps me to refocus myself just by reading them. I'm on week 10 now and plan on going through the program again so I can pick up those little things I missed the first time around. Keep posting it really does help. In fact, I look for certain people's posts because I know they will have something beneficial to say
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Wow!! i didn't realize this thread would be so popular!!
i think it's great that we all have been posting the positives!!!!!!
Let's keep it up!!!!
DeeDee- I know it can get frustrating sometimes when people do not "want" you to help them, it's almost like some would rather "stay stuck", that is all part of the problem I think and sometimes, there is nothing We can do or say to make them get"it".
Oh well, we move on and focus on our accomplishements!
You have come so far, I know just from reading your posts. Keep it up!
I love this but I know there are more positives out there!!
Come on guys,
Post Post POst.
But not if your going to be an enabler or negative.
Positive posts only!
=)
Lisa :p
i think it's great that we all have been posting the positives!!!!!!
Let's keep it up!!!!
DeeDee- I know it can get frustrating sometimes when people do not "want" you to help them, it's almost like some would rather "stay stuck", that is all part of the problem I think and sometimes, there is nothing We can do or say to make them get"it".
Oh well, we move on and focus on our accomplishements!
You have come so far, I know just from reading your posts. Keep it up!
I love this but I know there are more positives out there!!
Come on guys,
Post Post POst.
But not if your going to be an enabler or negative.
Positive posts only!
=)
Lisa :p