Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 1:07 am
I can relate to this as I had hard feelings toward my mother but lets be honest we are all not perfect and I looked at things from my mothers view and she had a bad child hood and she did't know how to love and shelter a child as she was't sheltered she was growing up in the 30s and those were hard times and her father was not good to them this helped me a lot and I was able to get past any bad feelings and they don't help us any way now with my daughte I vowed to do the best I could I thought I did but because Of agrophobia I missed alot in her life but she says she did't mind but now I need to work on getting well